a la Dear Abby an advice coloumn of sorts to help you help yourself...so ask away!

a la Dear Abby an advice coloumn of sorts to help you help yourself...so ask away!

I really don't need any help, but I am somewhat curious about what you, a sharp mouth, reasonable intelligent, afro-centric woman looks like and how is your baby or u have not had it yet. Describe your physical characteristics to those of us not privileged to have met u in person as of yet.

Dear Taffy,my girlfriend is a functionin weed head and it's causin a major strain on everything,she starts off in the mornin while i'm still restin and at nite,we went 2 Milton st 2 meet her friend girl recently and they fired-up a blunt,then we went 2 see her other friend girl later that evenin and yes,another blunt was blazin,she's very loud in public and evryone must know that she;s around,she's disrespectfull and i was almost tempted 2 slap her but i chose 2 ride,we're runnin 2 separate bizzness and my clientel is mostly women which makes her xtremly jealous and paranoid,baseless accusations flies constantly,i offered get concillin 4 us both but she decline,so i told her i'm out the backdoor then she agreed 2 go,help me Taffy my patience is long gone!

Dear Taffy,my girlfriend is a functionin weed head and it's causin a major strain on everything,she starts off in the mornin while i'm still restin and at nite,we went 2 Milton st 2 meet her friend girl recently and they fired-up a blunt,then we went 2 see her other friend girl later that evenin and yes,another blunt was blazin,she's very loud in public and evryone must know that she;s around,she's disrespectfull and i was almost tempted 2 slap her but i chose 2 ride,we're runnin 2 separate bizzness and my clientel is mostly women which makes her xtremly jealous and paranoid,baseless accusations flies constantly,i offered get concillin 4 us both but she decline,so i told her i'm out the backdoor then she agreed 2 go,help me Taffy my patience is long gone!



Taffy,

I'll take this one.

Leave her. Don't call her, Don't go see her. Don't drive by her house. :gi:

I really don't need any help, but I am somewhat curious about what you, a sharp mouth, reasonable intelligent, afro-centric woman looks like and how is your baby or u have not had it yet. Describe your physical characteristics to those of us not privileged to have met u in person as of yet.

baby? um not me...I have a nephew( whom I adore) and any new gadget I get is my new baby. Ive described myself many times on this board...hold up this isnt about me!

Taffy,
I'll take this one.
Leave her. Don't call her, Don't go see her. Don't drive by her house. :gi:


I thought weed heads were supposed to be chill? Sure she ain't drinkin' too, cos 'liquid confidence' has been known to make people belligerent.

Taffy,
I'll take this one.
Leave her. Don't call her, Don't go see her. Don't drive by her house. :gi:

dear taffy!:gi: thx n-e-way!:)
its never that simple- he might be in love. She has another issues she mask with this chronic drug abuse and her display of loose low class behavour...tell her that drugs are expensive and she's throwing away good money on delaying the inevitableI dealing with her problems!

You said your clientele is overwhelmingly female- she knew that when she got with you, maybe she's cheating,you think? Whatever it is, she aspires to funk with your money she must go! Im sure other people have told yout he same. Life is too short for foolishness...too many good women out here yearns for a decent striving man.

too many good women out here yearns for a decent striving man.


OK. Now, pray tell, where are these women?

OK. Now, pray tell, where are these women?



In The United States of the Bahamas, Florida, Miami, Ft Lauderdale, Tampa,Orlando, Atlanta and North Carolina!

Dear Taffy,
Seeing that u don't want to describe yourself, I will ask away. I have a friend who is 3 years removed from her divorce. She has 3 kids. 1 teenage girl, a 9 year old son and a 7 month old baby boy. Often, she comes to me for advice and normally I give it. Just recently, she left her baby daddy and has started chatting online with this guy who lives in a foreign country. Apparently she met him around the time she was married but nothing came of it. I have advised her that to pursue a relationship with a new man just after giving birth is really irresponsible and she should focus on her kids and her personal issues as opposed to seeking another to satisfy her personal desires. Please advise me further, she is not listening to me and is pursuing this man full steam ahead with expectations of possible marriage. What can I do to help her or should I stay out of it. We have been friends for more than 20 years.

Dear Taffy,
Seeing that u don't want to describe yourself, I will ask away. I have a friend who is 3 years removed from being divorced. She has 3 kids. 1 teenage girl, a 9 year old son and a 7 month old baby boy. Often, she comes to me for advice and normally I give it. Just recently, she left her baby daddy and has started chatting online with this guy who lives in a foreign country. Apparently she met him around the time she was married but nothing came of it. I have advised her that to pursue a relationship with a new man just after giving birth is really irresponsible and she should focus on her kids and her personal issues as opposed to seeking another to satisfy her personal desires. Please advise me further, she is not listening to me and is pursuing this man full steam ahead with expectations of possible marriage. What can I do to help her or should I stay out of it. We have been friends for more than 20 years.


this man better not be from Jamaica! You really cant stay out of it because she always comes crying to you! She seems like an impulsive person w/ a lot of extra stuff going on (the divorce then a new baby by a brand new man) Tell her having all these different men around her children is not a good thing- we live in strange times. The new "I-man" seems like a carry-over from the divorce let her know that how you start is how you end- she had these lustful feelings in her marriage- whose to say this internet man doesnt have an agenda? Tell her its better alone than lonely; implore her to spend some time doing some much needed self-assessment so she can stop this cycle of despair. After you give her this advice just listen from here on in...many people make problems from themselves- life happens but at some point you have to be able to handle your sh1t. She does have children- their well being should take precedent over anything.
Quietly, why you guys never got together?


im short, shea cocoa butter brown with luscious lips, short cut, dd's, sex appeal...wear glasses now (cus a reading in the dark like my daddy) people always say I come off nice...but enough about me.

im short, shea cocoa butter brown with luscious lips, short cut, dd's, sex appeal...wear glasses now (cus a reading in the dark like my daddy) people always say I come off nice...but enough about me.


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Dear Penthouse,
I was on this internet forum and this girls started describing herself...

Yours Truly,
SatisfiedObserver

Deat Taffy,

I gat this friend who have this husband who cheats on her, they have been married for 19 years. She told me she stands by her man. Yea he cheating, he gat his other woman (younger) in an apartment and paying the bills. He goes out EVERYNIGHT and stays out late. She has all the symptoms now diagnose the illness. She still believes her man.

I see him creeping and he knows that I know, I don't want to get involved because usually your friends will turn on you.

I overheard her telling a friend not a leave her husband, stay together, thats her man.

I am a pack your sh*t and get the hell out person. I believe in a man being home with his family, not roaming the streets like a dog late at night. Where the hell you find to go EVERYNIGHT, even on Tuesday.
(And don'y say BINGO)

Am I being a good friend by not saying anything!! Is she that naive or deep down she knows? All she does is stay at home. Stevie Wonder could see he cheating!

:hammer: :hammer: :hammer:
Dear Penthouse,
I was on this internet forum and this girls started describing herself...
Yours Truly,
SatisfiedObserver



You so fool man!

Deat Taffy,
I gat this friend who have this husband who cheats on her, they have been married for 19 years. She told me she stands by her man. Yea he cheating, he gat his other woman (younger) in an apartment and paying the bills. He goes out EVERYNIGHT and stays out late. She has all the symptoms now diagnose the illness. She still believes her man.
I see him creeping and he knows that I know, I don't want to get involved because usually your friends will turn on you.
I overheard her telling a friend not a leave her husband, stay together, thats her man.
I am a pack your sh*t and get the hell out person. I believe in a man being home with his family, not roaming the streets like a dog late at night. Where the hell you find to go EVERYNIGHT, even on Tuesday.
(And don'y say BINGO)
Am I being a good friend by not saying anything!! Is she that naive or deep down she knows? All she does is stay at home. Stevie Wonder could see he cheating!

...she knows.
your friend is a fool in love, stuck on stupid, living in the past of what was. she's depressed and sad and unhappy (are those synonymous?)waiting for him to come home. her husband doesnt respect himself, his marriage,her, their home...they probably havent had sex in a long time either...as this young girl or boy- hey you never know these days- is giving it to him right and on time every night! it een funny but seriously, though friends are the family you choose for ourselves, **** is thicker than blood and the affairs of husbands and wives...are as such:she will resent you for blatantly intervening. I suggest you carryout a covert operation of sorts: some pics for her to see in black and white, an address in the pics...all left visible on her car windshield before she goes to work in the dew filled early morning...be creative! hopefully the young whipper snapper- if the sweetheart is a female- dont have an ankle biter to protect her investment.

how you found out BG?