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Vicky 12-04-04, - 12:23 AM No, (from my observation) Vicki does not like stupid, stiff-necked people that cannot admit when they are wrong. Especially when they like to play sacred and profane games with other people's lives and lifestyles when their own ain't in order. It just so happens that the majority of the people that fit said descriptive on this site, happen to be calling themselves "Christian." So at first, maybe second and possibly third glances it would seem Vicki doesn't like Christians. This is not so.
In the words of Gandhi, "Christianity is a wonderful religion, people should try it sometime."
Thank you so much parietal_03 seems you knows me. Gandhi said a mouthful.
Let me make something very clear.
I do not hate Christians. I hate misinterpretations that hurt people.
I do not like it when the Bible is used as a weapon against anyone. I will
Oppose them till my dieing breath. I will point out the hypocrisy in what they believe to be fact. I will hope they will look for themselves.
I may not want to be around some people because their sprit hurts me. But I do not hate them.
Vicky 12-04-04, - 01:27 AM I've read some posts from people who never said they were Christians, but appear to be Christians to Vicky, and they were heavily addressed. Ok so I am human. Please post the thread and post number. Which led me to say what I said. And from various posts you can see Vicky attacking the bible, and many other Christian related topics.... I will not let anyone use the Bible as a weapon for frear and hate not once have I ever heard Vicky talk about Rastafarianism or Islam, and they are heavily against homosexuality.I am not Rasta or Muslim I am a follower of Christs (the man who walked the earth) teachings. And as said before...there are some people who don't follow any religion and are still against homosexuality. This is what I have observed myself in these forums.
And how does Vicky know that someone is wrong? Because I have researched and I have posted proof on these threads for my position. Ask Delroy about our XY discussion. I have posted medical proof. But people still look the other way for them the world is flat. I have all but posted a photo of my genitals and exposing the 1 visible scar of the procedure done on me as an infinite because I was under developed. A revelation passed on to me late in life by my mother. But that made the entire puzzle come together for me. I was born different. Yes I produce a child yes my birth certificate and passport and DL say male. But I am transgendered. I am not the same yet I love and love my family I can work and live I cry at the movies and watching TV.
Because she believes in something and the other person doesn't? Does that make them wrong? No it doesn't, they have a disagreement due to their own beliefs...but who can actually prove the other is wrong without something that overwhelmingly supports their claim? This is why I said in another post that something like this issue will be going on for a long time, because both sides on sexuality cannot just let each other be.....therefore I probably won't get involved in such topics anymore, because I made my points and didn't get any strong rebuttals so I am content with the outcome. I'll focus on more social/political/educational issues that plague the society, other than sexual/religious preference.
Cool?.....cool... :cool:
My heart is very heavy to night I spent all yesterday and most of last night at PMH with my Dad in the chest pain unite. I watch my dad grimace in pain as the Dr pushed the needle deep and probed into his wrist to try and get arterial blood to check blood gases. Not the same as vein blood. I am at my Dads house because he did not want to be left alone tonight. I am not afraid of his passing (I don't think) I believe he will move on to a better place when its time. I feel this will be the last Christmas I will have with him. It will be the last for him and my Mom for sure. As in Feb. she will have to stay in Canada for dialyses. I just don't want him to have pain. I do not look forward to this Christmas.
Teniel 12-04-04, - 01:39 AM Vicky I am sorry to hear of your father's condition. I wish him and your family well.
parietal_03 12-04-04, - 02:28 AM Vicky I am sorry to hear of your father's condition. I wish him and your family well.
Secondered. You have my empathy, my thoughts and concern.
Secondered. You have my empathy, my thoughts and concern.
Vicky I am sorry to hear of your father's condition. I wish him and your family well.
Vicky, I echo Parietal03 and Teniel's good thoughts and wishes for you and your family during this trying time. You have my phone number, call me if I can be of any help.
Metta
Vicky 12-06-04, - 08:36 AM My eyes hurt because I have had to hold back tears. Can't let Dad see my pain. When Mom come this will be their last hug their last kiss. This is what hurts more than the thought of either ones death. Can't imagine the pain my Mom is going thourh. Knowing this is her last time home this is her last time with Dad. Can't imagian the pain my Dad will goe through when she come here and tells him.
it hurts it hurts.
I have to say thanks to you all. Bahamas issues has helped keep my mind off of the hurt (except for this post).
parietal_03 12-07-04, - 02:51 AM My eyes hurt because I have had to hold back tears. Can't let Dad see my pain. When Mom come this will be their last hug their last kiss. This is what hurts more than the thought of either ones death. Can't imagine the pain my Mom is going thourh. Knowing this is her last time home this is her last time with Dad. Can't imagian the pain my Dad will goe through when she come here and tells him.
it hurts it hurts.
I have to say thanks to you all. Bahamas issues has helped keep my mind off of the hurt (except for this post).
Some say that death is only a horizon, and a horizon is nothing but the limit of our sight. I believe that.
Doesn't mean nothing exists beyond the horizon...ya'know? Think of it as eyes and ears can't follow, but wherever he goes YAHWEH'll be there to take care of that which isn't tangible. I give YAHWEH messages for my grandparents all the time and thank Him for keeping them safe until whatever appointed time. I know the hurt, I remember when my uncle left (I was 13) one of the things I grew to resent was everybody saying, "I'm sorry."
I can't explain it, but after that I never felt the way most people do about 'departure' because I always knew it's only a matter of the body and mind go away for a while. What I say may seem insensitive, but I don't mean it to be.
Be sincere with your feelings for the time being and you will be at peace...You will see him again, until such time continue to treasure those you have, those who have you and those yet to come.
Vicky 12-07-04, - 12:51 PM Some say that death is only a horizon, and a horizon is nothing but the limit of our sight. I believe that.
Doesn't mean nothing exists beyond the horizon...ya'know? Think of it as eyes and ears can't follow, but wherever he goes YAHWEH'll be there to take care of that which isn't tangible. I give YAHWEH messages for my grandparents all the time and thank Him for keeping them safe until whatever appointed time. I know the hurt, I remember when my uncle left (I was 13) one of the things I grew to resent was everybody saying, "I'm sorry."
I can't explain it, but after that I never felt the way most people do about 'departure' because I always knew it's only a matter of the body and mind go away for a while. What I say may seem insensitive, but I don't mean it to be.
Be sincere with your feelings for the time being and you will be at peace...You will see him again, until such time continue to treasure those you have, those who have you and those yet to come.
I don't think you understand. Mom went back and forth to Canada as she is Canadian and she has Medicare. She is coming down for the holidays. But this will be her last trip. Dad is a time bomb and we don't know the time left, 1 min 1 year or more. But it does not look good. When Mom leave this time its the last they will see each other no matter how long they live. That is my pain. Can you imagine how it will be? I can get on the plain and go up to Canada and see Mom. Dad is too ill to travel. We can't afford for Mom to come down and have to pay $10,000 dollars for a month or so of dialysis.
parietal_03 12-08-04, - 04:02 AM I don't think you understand. Mom went back and forth to Canada as she is Canadian and she has Medicare. She is coming down for the holidays. But this will be her last trip. Dad is a time bomb and we don't know the time left, 1 min 1 year or more. But it does not look good. When Mom leave this time its the last they will see each other no matter how long they live. That is my pain. Can you imagine how it will be? I can get on the plain and go up to Canada and see Mom. Dad is too ill to travel. We can't afford for Mom to come down and have to pay $10,000 dollars for a month or so of dialysis.
My bad...you're right. I misunderstood the situation. Though it's my belief that they will be close whatever happens. The matters of the heart...
Love is immortal.
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