I have some serious jealous family members yall...in particular an uncle, and 2 aunts. From i was a child they would tell the most vicious lies on me, and pick on me (i am not talkin bout the kinda teasin that your relatives do out of love that u hate as a kid but then laugh bout when u get older). I am so sick and tired of them, and they cant seem to realize the more they lie and trie to smear my good name...everything they speak falsely about me does end up fallin on their own children. Word for Word....why can't they realize that. I just wish i cuda make them stop...i really don't want them in my life nor do i need them. Whenever i go to any family events...soon as i walk in the room-silence,....i even hate going to family functions...n yall i am a good person u know i love my family n like havin wholesome fun with dem...HUhhh

any a yall does go true dese tings???

Chile, dis would be a shorter thread if you ask who AIN have dat in dey family. Chile dat spirit alive and well in The Bahams unfortunately. I wouldnt even begin to get into mine, cuz lawd know if I could divorce them I would!

Thank god ya get to pick ya friends to balance out the fools that you happen to be related to.

Please dont get me started on family members....

i am jus sayin...i don't know how to deal wit dese set.

i am jus sayin...i don't know how to deal wit dese set.


Sounds like it is best to stay away from them.

chile what Suga say!

Thing is dey will talk about you if you show up at family functions and talk about you if you dont. So just do like by Aunt is say and "pass dem like August pass July."

Ya damned if you do, damned if ya dont!

chile what Suga say!
Thing is dey will talk about you if you show up at family functions and talk about you if you dont. So just do like by Aunt is say and "pass dem like August pass July."
Ya damned if you do, damned if ya dont!


Well I don't do "mixing up"...so I stay away from any event I think is gonna turn dramatic.

I cannot stand being around negative ppl...they drain you of all the energy u have!

I have this one aunt, my uncle left and after a million years if you ask her how you doing she goes off the cliff about him so I don't even give her the time of day! I send a short email saying just checking up on ya!

I always say family is the worst F word ever. If i start on my family, BI members would go into a serious depression. When i was younger i was taunted and teased by members of my family to the point where I felt suicidal. As i got older nothing changed it only got worst.I dont want to go into all the details because it is really bad. But now at least i could cuss like a sailor and tell them what I think about them. I had to become very strong and develop a mind like armour. I had to literally cut them off. One in particular(the ring leader) I have not spoken to in about 20 years even though I see that person everyday. Some people may say to forgive and forget, but how can you forgive someone who main objective is to defame your character and continually antagonize you?

I always say family is the worst F word ever. If i start on my family, BI members would go into a serious depression. When i was younger i was taunted and teased by members of my family to the point where I felt suicidal. As i got older nothing changed it only got worst.I dont want to go into all the details because it is really bad. But now at least i could cuss like a sailor and tell them what I think about them. I had to become very strong and develop a mind like armour. I had to literally cut them off. One in particular(the ring leader) I have not spoken to in about 20 years even though I see that person everyday. Some people may say to forgive and forget, but how can you forgive someone who main objective is to defame your character and continually antagonize you?


But why?....this questionis for you and brownting!

I always say family is the worst F word ever. If i start on my family, BI members would go into a serious depression. When i was younger i was taunted and teased by members of my family to the point where I felt suicidal. As i got older nothing changed it only got worst.I dont want to go into all the details because it is really bad. But now at least i could cuss like a sailor and tell them what I think about them. I had to become very strong and develop a mind like armour. I had to literally cut them off. One in particular(the ring leader) I have not spoken to in about 20 years even though I see that person everyday. Some people may say to forgive and forget, but how can you forgive someone who main objective is to defame your character and continually antagonize you?

I feel you...my thing is i only does be puttin on face for Mama (grammy)...dey is go lyin to her n where she up in age n simple (i gatta be honest) she does believe everyting they say. I only does attend n do things for Mama...BUT when Mama kick da bucket...dats it. I just goin to stay away from dem...i was even thinkin bout moving to a next church...cuz all my family does attend one church n does dominate n control everyting in dat particular church...i really plannin on leavin, and avoidin dat "sunday dinner" rush all together. I like to b round positive and constructive folk...from i know dem suckers all dey does do is after church gossip bout people...years and years..and een accomplish NUTTIN. i don't want to bring my own family that i will eventually have around that. PURE BLACK CRAB I SAY

But why?....this questionis for you and brownting!


Well i never felt suicidal...jus disgusted. I know i never do them nuttin...cuz what is a gray behind man woman of 30 plus years...doin pickin bones over a kid jus 7 years? I jus gatta be honest my family is not the best...i don't cover for dem n make dem appear to be what they are not.

But why?....this questionis for you and brownting!


All i can say there are haters out there. There only job is to hate. Once they send ya up da wall or cause ya ta die from high blood or stroke, they move on to the next victim. Or worse da would holler da loudest at da funeral...
Das why i keep ta ma sef.

All i can say there are haters out there. There only job is to hate. Once they send ya up da wall or cause ya ta die from high blood or stroke, they move on to the next victim. Or worse da would holler da loudest at da funeral...
Das why i keep ta ma sef.


OH MY I DEADIN...lol lol

Well i never felt suicidal...jus disgusted. I know i never do them nuttin...cuz what is a gray behind man woman of 30 plus years...doin pickin bones over a kid jus 7 years? I jus gatta be honest my family is not the best...i don't cover for dem n make dem appear to be what they are not.
All i can say there are haters out there. There only job is to hate. Once they send ya up da wall or cause ya ta die from high blood or stroke, they move on to the next victim. Or worse da would holler da loudest at da funeral...
Das why i keep ta ma sef.

Perhaps it has to do with sibling rivalry before you guys were even born. Some of these things run deep and go way back!

I feel you...my thing is i only does be puttin on face for Mama (grammy)...dey is go lyin to her n where she up in age n simple (i gatta be honest) she does believe everyting they say. I only does attend n do things for Mama...BUT when Mama kick da bucket...dats it. I just goin to stay away from dem...i was even thinkin bout moving to a next church...cuz all my family does attend one church n does dominate n control everyting in dat particular church...i really plannin on leavin, and avoidin dat "sunday dinner" rush all together. I like to b round positive and constructive folk...from i know dem suckers all dey does do is after church gossip bout people...years and years..and een accomplish NUTTIN. i don't want to bring my own family that i will eventually have around that. PURE BLACK CRAB I SAY

Chile i hear ya... Ya situation is similar to mines's.Sep with me dey wan bump me off cause Mama and me are like twins.It was hard for me as a teenager, i was constantly thinking about suicide. But as I got older and could defend myself. I realise that this to shall pass. And learning some big cus words does help...dat does make dem leave ya alone fa a while.Mama living and dey carrying on like a freak.But just stay away from da old farts and live ya life fa ya sef.