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John Doe
04-23-08, - 10:53 PM
What yall dong playing hide and seek eh lol


HEY HEY GENZ, I had a feelin ya was still here, you is da one who been hiding lolol

GenX
04-23-08, - 10:54 PM
SO soon????? it een ten yet sis......

Ya make sense dis time...it is still early.I wan watch da news again.

GenX
04-23-08, - 10:55 PM
HEY HEY GENZ, I had a feelin ya was still here, you is da one who been hiding lolol


chile, i started ta count sheep, but den da sheep I had was in da union and dey say dey want a pay increase, so i had ta roll dem out lol.

John Doe
04-23-08, - 10:57 PM
become the president of each other's fan clubs :cutie:??? that's one way to make love stay.
I Totally Concur

that, and praying to the moon ...

Ah:dgi:

Just kidding, but fa true dough, plenty praying

John Doe
04-23-08, - 10:58 PM
chile, i started ta count sheep, but den da sheep I had was in da union and dey say dey want a pay increase, so i had ta roll dem out lol.


Make sure you dont have ta edit dey time in da system with plenty fill time naw, you need ta let dem hear KB song Civil Servant lolol

TELL DEM SHEEP GET BACK TA WORK

GenX
04-23-08, - 11:00 PM
Make sure you dont have ta edit dey time in da system with plenty fill time naw, you need ta let dem hear KB song Civil Servant lolol
TELL DEM SHEEP GET BACK TA WORK

BOL

Objective thought
04-23-08, - 11:34 PM
(ONE POSSIBLE EXPLANATION OF LOVE IS WHEN YOU WOULD GIVE UP YOUR HAPPINESS FOR YOUR LOVED ONES HAPPINESS EVEN IF IT MEANS THE HARD DECISION TO LET THEM GO TO WHO THEY LOVE IF IT IS NOT YOU.)


Put God first, make sure yall on da same accord spiritually and financially, because Religion (Being Equally yolk) and Finances are possibly the main reasons for divorce. Be faithfull (monogamous) and if you feel that there is one small voice in your head telling you that your significant other is doing fool in which you personally saw a hint for yourself, get out before its to late.

On the other hand, do not let others discourage you from loving or being with that person (unless dey gat concrete evidence) who they feel is the wrong choice because at the end of the day, if you feel that is the one for you but you listen to other people, you will be home alone to yourself unhappy worrying about others, plus dey may want him/her for deyself. Always communicate, dont go to bed any night mad at each other. Make, Make, Make, Make sure that the person has goals e.g. home ownership, family etc in their agenda because you do not want to be takin care of know louse fa da ress of your life.

Lastly and most importantly, before you engage in any sexual contact (after the marriage if you could hold off dat long) MAKE SURE TO GET TESTED FOR ALL STD'S, do not go by looks alone, your health is your wealth.

Das my 5 cents
Hope it helps
Has anyone noticed that most marriages that last a long, long time involves a couple where the husband works and the wife is a housewife???

I believe the problem with most marriages today is the fact that materialism is the goal and not a prosperous relationship...Couples judge their marriages by how much "things" they are able to purchase which is wrong!!

Being there for each other should be the #1 factor in keeping marriages together...If you don't support each other and make decisions together, your marriage will not last. Married couples must remember that they are supposed to be one....If one does not believe that, they are wasting their time getting married because it will not last!!

Everything else will fall in line ones the proper goals are set which are basically those that I fore mentioned...

Objective thought
04-23-08, - 11:38 PM
lolol i GET MA BOXIN GLOVES ON AND READY TA GO LOLOL
Are you talking about boxing with mis/miss Pam???

Before I got married we had a good relationship but since getting married our relationship just hasn't been the same.....LOL

proudplp
04-23-08, - 11:39 PM
What yall dong playing hide and seek eh lol
I was taking an "INTERMISSION BREAK "mammy......

~*Lovely*~
04-24-08, - 11:10 AM
Has anyone noticed that most marriages that last a long, long time involves a couple where the husband works and the wife is a housewife???
I believe the problem with most marriages today is the fact that materialism is the goal and not a prosperous relationship...Couples judge their marriages by how much "things" they are able to purchase which is wrong!!
Being there for each other should be the #1 factor in keeping marriages together...If you don't support each other and make decisions together, your marriage will not last. Married couples must remember that they are supposed to be one....If one does not believe that, they are wasting their time getting married because it will not last!!
Everything else will fall in line ones the proper goals are set which are basically those that I fore mentioned...
Perhaps that is due to the fact that many of them can't leave... Or they can leave, but can't have the same lifestyle and/or support their children. It may not be that their marriage model is the best.

The Exotic One
04-24-08, - 11:14 AM
It is said that 50% of marriages end up in divorce.With that in mind, is there any hope especially for single persons to look forward to having a committed relationship with that one special someone?Do you believe in true love? If so do you see yourself being with one person for the rest of your life forsaking all others?Are there any BI members that can give any advice on having a long loving relationship?

IT'S TIME FOR A LITTLE LUV HUMOR!!! LUV IS SOMETHING U CANNOT EXPLAIN IT GOES TO YOUR HEAD AND TICKLES YOUR BRAIN... LMAO!!!:bouncy::cutie:

proudplp
04-24-08, - 01:14 PM
IT'S TIME FOR A LITTLE LUV HUMOR!!! LUV IS SOMETHING U CANNOT EXPLAIN IT GOES TO YOUR HEAD AND TICKLES YOUR BRAIN... LMAO!!!:bouncy::cutie:
Proud LOVES, LOVE &to show LOVE to people too....

The Exotic One
04-24-08, - 01:22 PM
Proud LOVES, LOVE &to show LOVE to people too....


AMEN SWEETIE AMEN!!!! I THINK I'LL SING A SONG... VAT DA VERL NEEDS NOW IS LUV SWEET LUV, NO NOT JES FER SOME BUT FER ERRYONE... LOL:cutie:

Brown Suga
04-24-08, - 01:34 PM
Perhaps that is due to the fact that many of them can't leave... Or they can leave, but can't have the same lifestyle and/or support their children. It may not be that their marriage model is the best.


Exactly....I know my mom was a housewife for a longtime (12/13 years) and wanted to leave but didn't because she felt she could not offer us what we were used to! I gireved over this fact as I felt that she should not have to sacrifice her sanity/happiness. I kept telling her she did not have to put up with the ish!

Anyway at some point she started to work...gaining independence in many ways that led to her starting her own business. SHe has moved on..living in her own place (not renting) - she left after being married for 27 years.

So I do not believe that marriages last longer or are happier because the wife stays at home.