View Full Version : This is what funerals of young persons have become..
brownting 05-27-08, - 01:17 PM :jawdroop: why yall doon stop frontin, only white people does have 'decent' funerals. Us black set............first of all, ween looking to get nuttin from no will, then our new shoes hurting or too high, then the dressmaker een sew the clothes right, added to that all them funeral songs...............GREAT GOD FROM ZION.................we gattee HOLLA!! Dass all I sayin.:)
you lie...u een neva been to none...i been to several especially dem hard heel ones dey is carryin on jus as bad.i talkin bout our very own white bahamian born n raise...not dem sent who jus reach or passin thru. Chile u mussy een know bout "big red" Maude dem family:jawdroop:
chancellor 05-27-08, - 01:18 PM I een talk about mom yet! She had to take car of a funeral once. Short and sweet!
People was just starting to arrive and we were going to the cemetary....I swear!
No one have time to be sitting up for hours in a room with a dead body! Musse tink you is the one gettin bury aye!?
Good god where did I get this bahamianese from?
Brown Suga 05-27-08, - 01:21 PM One of my uncles will take you out the church. One of the Aunts was starting up and everyone said he took her out in the middle of the service and walked her straight home!
Das funny!
African Queen 05-27-08, - 01:22 PM Chile the drunks stay outside at the party in the church yard.....making a disturbance!
Why Bahamian men always gattee be outside standing by the backtrunk while the funeral going on. Dey just to lousy for words man. They can wait til they go to the after party.
FACTS ONLY 05-27-08, - 01:25 PM you lie...u een neva been to none...i been to several especially dem hard heel ones dey is carryin on jus as bad.i talkin bout our very own white bahamian born n raise...not dem sent who jus reach or passin thru. Chile u mussy een know bout "big red" Maude dem family:jawdroop:
dain really really white doe. right?
FACTS ONLY 05-27-08, - 01:26 PM I een talk about mom yet! She had to take car of a funeral once. Short and sweet!
People was just starting to arrive and we were going to the cemetary....I swear!
No one have time to be sitting up for hours in a room with a dead body! Musse tink you is the one gettin bury aye!?
Good god where did I get this bahamianese from?
when ya wan keep it reeel, dass da onlee wey ta say eet..:)
chancellor 05-27-08, - 01:26 PM when ya wan keep it reeel, dass da onlee wey ta say eet..:)
True!:hammer:
brownting 05-27-08, - 01:30 PM dain really really white doe. right?
yes...like "Abaco White" (i understand there is a difference between L.I. white n Abaco white)....na ieeeen kno if it true (look so to tho)..dey say abaco white is da purest in da Bahamas....dont quote me na but its jus da talk.
gullyrock 05-27-08, - 02:00 PM White people take valium to keep them calm during the funeral so they can act dignified!
Seriously, this behaviour is because Bahamians have lost their identity! We used to have our own culture and decency and respectability were once a part of that. US Ghetto is not Bahamian culture, but too many people are copying what they see on TV. Its as if there is no such thing as RIGHT and WRONG..Its anything goes!
Personally, I feel that you guess are giving these people a bum wrap!
These guys are seeing it fit to grieve the loss of a love one, family member, or a good friend. Now I know that they get excessive and borderline ghetto, but who is to say that they should greive in the way that the want to??? I felt that the guy who had the shrine on the back of his truck was just expressing himself the best way he knew how.
Now as for the youth of today and there method of greiving at there funerals, none of the stuff they do is called for, but if no one taught them how to greive, then they learnt it from there real parents, The TV, & Music/Videos.
That ain't nuthing! A Haitian friend of mine died about 4 years back and boy that funeral stood out in my mind. You all think Bahamians is holla, man ever women in that place was screaming.
WHOOOOOOo WHOOOY WHOY WHOY WHOY HOY WHOY WHOY
WHOOOOOOo WHOOOY WHOY WHOY WHOY HOY WHOY WHOY
I was so amused at that, that was a sight to behold! The women dem flipping over the chairs and thing like gymnist.
FACTS ONLY 05-27-08, - 02:24 PM That ain't nuthing! A Haitian friend of mine died about 4 years back and boy that funeral stood out in my mind. You all think Bahamians is holla, man ever women in that place was screaming.
WHOOOOOOo WHOOOY WHOY WHOY WHOY HOY WHOY WHOY
WHOOOOOOo WHOOOY WHOY WHOY WHOY HOY WHOY WHOY
I was so amused at that, that was a sight to behold! The women dem flipping over the chairs and thing like gymnist.
Man why you hadta do that?:footmouth
African Queen 05-27-08, - 02:24 PM That ain't nuthing! A Haitian friend of mine died about 4 years back and boy that funeral stood out in my mind. You all think Bahamians is holla, man ever women in that place was screaming.
WHOOOOOOo WHOOOY WHOY WHOY WHOY HOY WHOY WHOY
WHOOOOOOo WHOOOY WHOY WHOY WHOY HOY WHOY WHOY
I was so amused at that, that was a sight to behold! The women dem flipping over the chairs and thing like gymnist. BOL
Man why you hadta do that?:footmouth
You know that's the truth! They does carry on funky up in the funeral!!!:hammer:
~*Lovely*~ 05-27-08, - 02:31 PM :jawdroop: why yall doon stop frontin, only white people does have 'decent' funerals. Us black set............first of all, ween looking to get nuttin from no will, then our new shoes hurting or too high, then the dressmaker een sew the clothes right, added to that all them funeral songs...............GREAT GOD FROM ZION.................we gattee HOLLA!! Dass all I sayin.:)
I have not had to go to many funerals. Those that I went to for family members were quiet. We went in black and navy blue (children in white), and those who cried did so quietly. If you were not looking in their faces or sitting right next to them to hear breathing patterns, you would not have known who was crying. We don't act as though we just found out about the death of our loved one when we get to the church or graveyard.
A lot of the people who make noise at funerals do that "for show". When people carry on bad at the grave, talking about wanting to jump in, I think everyone should stand back and see just who is upset enough to jump in the hole after the body has been lowered.
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