Since there seems to be a lot of question for me popping up on threads and pm email lets put the here.
Please feel free to ask any question. I will do my best.
I will also bring some of the questions from other threads.

rory i went weak at the knees laughin at this post, were u being serious!!!!???

anyway Vicky i will break it down for him, BUT BEFORE I BEGIN I HOPE YOUR PARENTS ARE DOING WELL AND I HOPE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY STAY STRONG.

rory, vicky was born a boy with male parts but she feels like a girl on the inside sometimes what a person is born as doesnt reflect who they are on the inside. IS THIS RIGHT VICKY?
This is true for many, some Transgender show no outward sign of this gender condition, I did. However as it is known even among true hermorphraties (currently called ambiguous sex or intersexed) sometimes there are some that are male some that are female and some neither and yet both. So you can have a normal looking girl with a male self idenitity.
Look at how different I am to what many of you think of as transgender. I am male to female transgender yet my sexual orientation is to women.
how did we get on this topic anyway, i dont even know what thread this is annymore, oh well anything will be better than talkin about the DREADED HAITIAN PROBLEM. Tia dont start it please.

when i was contempletating wheather a person is born gay, bi, lesbian etc or weather it is something they choose. the theory that lead me to believe that that they are born this way is this:

IT IS HUMAN NATURE TO WANT TO BE ACCEPTED SO WHY WOULD SOMEONE CHOOSE TO BE, ACT, OR DO THINGS THAT 90 PERCENT OF SOCIETY DOESNT RESPECT, ACCEPT, OR UNDERSTAND. WHY WOULD SOMEONE CHOOSE TO BE LOOKED DOWN ON OR CALLED NAMES. WHY WOULD THEY CHOOSE TO HURT THEIR FAMILIES AND DISsAPPOINT THE PEOPLE THAT MATTER MOST. THE ANSWER: BECUASE THEY CANT HELP IT, THIS IS WHO THEY NATURALLY ARE.

Well said

Vicky, I still dont get it, were you born with a penis, testicles, AND a vagina ??

My Mom has only told me recently (a few years ago) that a procedure was done near after I was a born because I was under developed. I have penis and testicles. But when I look close I can see where some cutting was done.
Now from what I have learned that is caused by the hormone bath in the womb that either:
Did not happen
Did not happen strong enough
Did happened to early or to late

This hormone bath also effects the brain.

i Still dont get it .. did you have a vagina from birth, and do you like hairy men, women, or both?

i Still dont get it .. did you have a vagina from birth, and do you like hairy men, women, or both?

Come on now Rory you have got to be pulling my leg now.
I don't think I had a vagina, what ever it was it was not a normal at birth. Women only I have no sexual intrest in men.

Come on now Rory you have got to be pulling my leg now.
I don't think I had a vagina, what ever it was it was not a normal at birth. Women only I have no sexual intrest in men.


now im really lost. I thought you were gay/lesbian? Then you say you are Transgendered? You were born a male, but are gay but dont like men ..?

So let me know if I get this right?

You were born a male, but felt you were a female, so you had a sex change, and then became a lesbian?

now i am a little confused, seriously. so vicky are you say you were born a semi hermaphrodite? (that probably isnt spell right)I don't know what it was . Mom said she knows I had a problem with urination because I was underdeveloped. She was still in the hospitial bed her self when this went down. I don't think she asked to many question. So I don't have much to go on.

i do believe that gender confusion comes from whatever chemicals we recieve in the womb that tells our brains how to act. i mean it makes sense. i wonder what anti gay persons think about hermaphrodites, they cant help what happened to them, they didnt chose to have both male/female parts

Nor can GLBT

now im really lost. I thought you were gay/lesbian? Then you say you are Transgendered? You were born a male, but are gay but dont like men ..?

So let me know if I get this right?

You were born a male, but felt you were a female, so you had a sex change, and then became a lesbian?

Here lets say it like this my birth certificate says male. I have male parts. My mind says I am female, I live androgenous. Never had a sex change that I know of. When I was born there was some sort on underdevelopment of my sex. I don't know how extensive it was I was to small to ask the Dr. myself.

my self identity is a women I am attracted to women my body has male parts.

Okay, so you're not gay, not transgendered ... just somehow think you are a female .. and you like females, so you feel you are a lesbian??

I dont know that it would be considered gay/lesbian, but certainly confused if anything :D

Okay, so you're not gay, not transgendered ... just somehow think you are a female .. and you like females, so you feel you are a lesbian??

I dont know that it would be considered gay/lesbian, but certainly confused if anything :D

You must not read what I am posting. I am transgenderd. As my gender does not match my sex. My sex is male my gender is female thus transgender.
My self idenitity is I am a woman with male parts and I am attracted to women.

thus a lesbian with male plumbing.

You must not read what I am posting. I am transgenderd. As my gender does not match my sex. My sex is male my gender is female thus transgender.
My self idenitity is I am a woman with male parts and I am attracted to women.

thus a lesbian with male plumbing.



How is your gender female, if you have male genitals? It seems you only "think" you are female, thus you are confused, as am I to why ...??

How is your gender female, if you have male genitals? It seems you only "think" you are female, thus you are confused, as am I to why ...??

Because your gender is between your ears and your sex it between your legs and not always do they match. Have you not been reading what I have been posting.
I am not confused you seem to be stuck thinking that humans come in only male and female.
This might help.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_gender
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Winkte
http://www.sover.net/~sharing/gender.html
http://www.uua.org/obgltc/resource/tg102.html

dont mind rory vicky.

so vicky your not a man, and your not a women, so you arent lesbian or gay, mussee gesbian!!? :D

Since there seems to be a lot of question for me popping up on threads and pm email lets put the here.
Please feel free to ask any question. I will do my best.
I will also bring some of the questions from other threads.

Vicky why are you so defensive and you think everyone is a gay basher when they ask questions or give suggestions around the subject matter?

Be nice :angel: