Please give your definition Love...................Why does it has to hurt so much? After all this time I still just dont understand! ! ! !

Love does not hurt my dear. Love is patient, love is kind, love is endearing, love is comforting, love is quiet, love is peace. Love is a beautiful experience. What hurts is when "love" is misinterpeted and not reciprocated. When one loves and the other doesn't. When one trusts and the other mistrust. When one pours out their heart and the other does not catch it but allows it to hit the floor and then walks all over it. When you've made it up in your mind that this person is the one, so you try to make them love you and no matter what you do, they don't ,that's when it hurts.

Love does not hurt my dear. Love is patient, love is kind, love is endearing, love is comforting, love is quiet, love is peace. Love is a beautiful experience. What hurts is when "love" is misinterpeted and not reciprocated. When one loves and the other doesn't. When one trusts and the other mistrust. When one pours out their heart and the other does not catch it but allows it to hit the floor and then walks all over it. When you've made it up in your mind that this person is the one, so you try to make them love you and no matter what you do, they don't ,that's when it hurts.


I hope you are a women! Then there is hope for us single guys finding a women who will not lay down and play rug to some of us brothers! SHE SWEET LIKE SUGAR, BUT WILL KICK YA OVERBOARD IF YA PLAY THE FOOL!

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I hope you are a women! Then there is hope for us single guys finding a women who will not lay down and play rug to some of us brothers! SHE SWEET LIKE SUGAR, BUT WILL KICK YA OVERBOARD IF YA PLAY THE FOOL!

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Yes I'm a woman and there's plenty of hope for guys like you. Just remember to be faithful and truthful and she'll always be "sweet like sugar". :lafs:

Love does not hurt my dear. Love is patient, love is kind, love is endearing, love is comforting, love is quiet, love is peace. Love is a beautiful experience. What hurts is when "love" is misinterpeted and not reciprocated. When one loves and the other doesn't. When one trusts and the other mistrust. When one pours out their heart and the other does not catch it but allows it to hit the floor and then walks all over it. When you've made it up in your mind that this person is the one, so you try to make them love you and no matter what you do, they don't ,that's when it hurts.

Sugar, Thank you for your kind words. Just get tired of the same old chit! Taken a break from Love for awhile. Going to Regroup and Heal! ! :heartbeat

Sugar, Thank you for your kind words. Just get tired of the same old chit! Taken a break from Love for awhile. Going to Regroup and Heal! ! :heartbeat


My words are words from experience. While I've learned all these things about love, I'm still waiting. But I'll be alone as long as it takes because I refuse to compromise. Stay strong and never accept anything less than you know you deserve. Happy healing.

My words are words from experience. While I've learned all these things about love, I'm still waiting. But I'll be alone as long as it takes because I refuse to compromise. Stay strong and never accept anything less than you know you deserve. Happy healing.

Thank you! Your Experience have taught you well. We all live and learn!

Please give your definition Love...................Why does it has to hurt so much? After all this time I still just dont understand! ! ! !


are you meaning love in a man/woman romance relationship? i think you do. what ever happened to you just know my heart goes out to you. even though i am young i have been there and done that. it was two years ago and i am just sorta coming around off of that mess. i must say i dont believe in love anymore, not in the sence it doesnt exist, but in the sense i dont believe love will be good to you. i dont believe the love that a man or woman profess to have for you is strong enough to keep them by your side for life. the person in "love" with you will lie to you, cheat on you, steal form you, and in some cases kill you.

one things for sure being in love feels good my only advise to you is next time dont let your self fall deep for a person, in the back of your mind always remeber they might not love me tomorrow. so at least you dont be tooo torn up if tomorrow does come.

also take some time to heal, to me alot of that brandy soothes the soul. listen to "Cool (Thought I'd Be) " or "i tried"

are you meaning love in a man/woman romance relationship? i think you do. what ever happened to you just know my heart goes out to you. even though i am young i have been there and done that. it was two years ago and i am just sorta coming around off of that mess. i must say i dont believe in love anymore, not in the sence it doesnt exist, but in the sense i dont believe love will be good to you. i dont believe the love that a man or woman profess to have for you is strong enough to keep them by your side for life. the person in "love" with you will lie to you, cheat on you, steal form you, and in some cases kill you.

one things for sure being in love feels good my only advise to you is next time dont let your self fall deep for a person, in the back of your mind always remeber they might not love me tomorrow. so at least you dont be tooo torn up if tomorrow does come.

also take some time to heal, to me alot of that brandy soothes the soul. listen to "Cool (Thought I'd Be) " or "i tried"



Thank you and I will put that inform in my box to hold onto!