Your mother is a wise woman, unfortunately non of her wisdom fell on you.


So you agree with what their mother said...because I'm beginning to wonder if wisdom and commonsense can exist exclusive of one another...

you say it like there is something wrong with being gay? no need to get all antsy about it...dont have a cow!
gal Taff you neva let me down..lol

Big Lol @ "Osama-hep-Haiti". :D
Ok? Taff head een good! :shaky:

I believe that we must arrest this demon sprit and move it away from our kids. We must identify persons who are involue in this type of action and keep them away from our children. I donot accept the alleged fact that some of these people are born like that and cannot help themself.We are born of other race and each one of us is born male or female. That is a fact.sorry not all humans are born just male and just female the default of the human being is female. The first 8 weeks in the womb we are all female. There are those that are born intersexed ambigous sexed and transsexed. http://www.isna.org/book/print/716
http://pennhealth.com/ency/article/003269.htm
and then you have
Matthew 19:12 (King James Version)
12For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
When one chooses to be involue with their same sex thats a matter of choice. I like believe that these people should seek help for their choice and turn to our Lord. lets us protect or little darling all.:angel:
there is no choice as to what genitics and hormones do to you in the womb.

Maybe we should ask some of them. School kids today are open to experimenting and dont have hang ups like most adults. They tend not to care what other people think and do what they feel. Some do it out of curiosity and others do it for attention. I've heard my Priest say that young people turn to a homosexual lifestyle because of broken relationships with their parents. and years ago they said the earth was flat and murdered and improsioned any one who said other wise. I feel that it is a matter of preference based on life experiences. I dont feel that a person is born gay.
so when did you choose not to be gay any more?

Bahamians kill me with some of the foolishness they allow themselves to come up with. The down fall of this nation will not be the gays, or single parent homes...it will be the ignorance of those so set in their own self-righteousness that they lack the desire or ability to see beyond it.
I'm gay...as gay as the day is long, as gay as any straight man is straight and it took me some time to deal with it. I'm not gay because I was molested. I'm not gay because I wasn't loved at home. I'm not gay because my father wasn't around...in fact, my father soars above every Bahamian man I know, he still is an amazing parental figure who is a huge part of my life. I'm gay because I didn't choose to be this way, who would? And, if you had happened to be in my bedroom when I was 15, on the floor with my head in the carpet crying and pleading for God to take this gayness away from me.
Now I thank him for making me this way, believe it or not. When you're naturally different from the people around you it sometimes forces you to naturally have a different perspective on the world. And yes, I say natural despite what some of you have said about homosexuality being unnatural. Dictating what is natural and what isn't is tricky. Usually we understand something as being natural by observing nature and the nature of things. It might interest you to know that members of many species of animals engage in homosexual activity, some even enter into life long homosexual relationships.
It's that perspective, along with my hardworking parents, I credit for the remarkably successful career I have, my apartment in downtown DC,my stellar academic career, the straight and gay Bahamian and American friends, and the loving same sex relationship I'm in. Being gay kept me out of trouble and off of the streets, and it's taught the people around me to appreciate and cherish difference and diversity. A pastor once told me that is value he saw in GLBT people.
So you can talk about the Bible...that book that's been responsible for countless wars, translated by countless clergy with their own political and social perspectives and in fact even by a King who did so because of his own sexual indiscretions...that book condemns some of the things we do everyday, and from which much has been exclude but you cannot deny the truth of my life. A life that is governed by the principles of Christ, loving my neighbor, never judging and reminding everyone that we all have God inside of us (he never said anything about the gays).
*****kat Meow

You nailed it thank you for your personal story
all GLBT need to speak their storys its puts the real truth and humanity out there and puts an end to the lies amd myths.

bout da smart set, dat is tru cuz my cousin is a lesbian and she was valedictorian for our school and da previous year before, was her gf, but i wud say dat yes dey are curious cuz how much kids go off to college and try havin same sex? alot because dey are being exposed to that and i really didnt find out bout same sex till i was in high school wen da kids started spreadin rumours bout my cousin till i found it was tru,
so what you are saying is you could be influanced into being attracted to the same sex??? cool.
adolescents and puberty same sex experimentation is normal part of life it is how humans discover them selves.

being gay has become a fasion trend of sorts, that is continually pushed by the media outlets.

alot of them do it because dey like follow fashion.
realy so you would have had same sex sex to follow fashion but then you would have to do it in front of other so they would know you following fashion.

Um, actually. I live here, in the Bahamas. And no, I'm not trying to go against what my elders say. But, I do have a say in what I believe in. No one is ever going to change that. I think it is perfectly fine to be a homosexual. That is MY opinion and no one is going to change that. Yet, all of the older people are trying to say I am wrong for believing that and I'm not a Christian.
How can you say being a homosexual is a sin when, you just allow adultry to go on? It's nothing different. All ya'll are freaking out because, I'm 15 and I have an opinion that ya'll don't like. Nothing will ever change the way I feel about homosexuals. I do not care if I am 30 years old. What would make me change my opnion of them? I've known gays and lesbians. And some of them, you'd never be able to tell that they are gay. SO, what would you do if you had a friend who has gay yet, acted straight? Would you shun them?
so wat is dere reason for acting straight? are they ashamed of wat ppl mite say? i mean if ur gay, why pretend to be sumtin ur not?Because if you faced the discrimanation and violance we have faced you would pretend to be straight as well.
im not 1 to judge, im leaving dat to God but if ur friends are gay and proud den i wud think dey shoudnt pretend

Not really ya know. They are gay they choose to be subtle around straight people with the fear of being an outkast. Its hard for someone who is gay to have straight friends because they fear that friend will turn on them. Some people thing that being gay is a disease and that it is catching or that the person will hit on them. Both are not true. Most of my friends are straight.
My best friend is gay and in the beginning she always acted "straight". Not meaning that she showed interest in guys, she just never seemed interested. Guys would hit on her and she would smile to be nice but that was it. I picked up on it but never said anything to her because it didnt matter to me. Being gay have nothing to do with her as a person. After she told me I told her to be herself. I saw a difference, she was more relaxed and wasnt afraid to tell the guys that hit on her she wasnt interested.

I een kno much bout de bible, but i kno god made adam and eve, not adam and steve...all a you who think nothing wrong wit it and dose a u who practice it are sick in d mind...i know one ting for sure, god ga sort all y'all buzinezz in du time..
and you believe that creation story out of how many creation stories out there??

http://www.aquarius-atlanta.com/may04/hidden.shtml
http://www.lionofgod.com/view_article.php?id=20
Adam was both male and female then Elohim took from Adam to create female.

Both Male and Female

Included among the many pearls of truth which have been intentionally concealed from nearly all churches and synagogues for many centuries is the awareness that Elohim – the God of the Bible – has both male and female attributes and aspects.
The androgynous nature of Elohim is quite evident in the account of the creation of mankind found in the first chapter of Genesis. “And God [Elohim] said, Let us make man [adam = mankind] in our own image, after our likeness…So God [Elohim] created man in the image of God [Elohim]…male and female created he them…and called their name Adam.”

oh and lets look at the creation story.

First there was Adam then Eve they had Cain and Able. Cain killed Able and went to the land of Nod and found a wife... What did he marry???

and years ago they said the earth was flat and murdered and improsioned any one who said other wise.
so when did you choose not to be gay any more?

When it comes to true love it can not be controlled. Nobody can say when or who they are going to fall in love with. Let me explain what I meant by my previous statement. I know a female that was married for years and had two children with her husband and one day they got divorced. After her divorce she never dated a man again, she started dating females. I asked her how come her preference changed and she said that she been through so much with her ex husband and med in general that she gave up on them. She also told me that one day she met a woman and they started talking and it went from there. She never expected to fall in love and she did. So thats why I say "some" people may turn to a gay/lesbian lifestyle because of life experiences.

When it comes to true love it can not be controlled. Nobody can say when or who they are going to fall in love with. Let me explain what I meant by my previous statement. I know a female that was married for years and had two children with her husband and one day they got divorced. After her divorce she never dated a man again, she started dating females. I asked her how come her preference changed and she said that she been through so much with her ex husband and med in general that she gave up on them. She also told me that one day she met a woman and they started talking and it went from there. She never expected to fall in love and she did. So thats why I say "some" people may turn to a gay/lesbian lifestyle because of life experiences.
Or could it be that her being lesbian is the reason why the marriage failed, Many GLBT feel it and just don't understand it. Mean while they hope marriage (to the opposite sex) and family will make the feelings go away. Thus the marriage is doomed to failuer even before they say "I Do".

Or could it be that her being lesbian is the reason why the marriage failed, Many GLBT feel it and just don't understand it. Mean while they hope marriage (to the opposite sex) and family will make the feelings go away. Thus the marriage is doomed to failuer even before they say "I Do".

That is a strong possibility. She seemed really happy after meeting her girlfriend.

vicky ya situation confuses me though. if its the same person, arent you a TRANSEXUAL LESBIAN. so you were born a man, changed your gender to a female and then still preferred females.


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