Hi, I've struggled with infertility and pregnancy loss for some years now. It seems in our society that SOME people think that infertility is all 'in your head' and 'you just need to relax' OR SOME Bahamians assume that there is some past sexual promiscuity which has led to one's infertility.
Both viewpoints are erroneous.
Infertility is often the result of various medically recognized conditions which may be anatomical, hormonal, immunological and even genetic in nature. The male or the female partner or both male and female may be implicated. Infertility can be an emotionally trying experience, for a couple. I know for a FACT that I am not the only Bahamian woman (couple)who has been plagued with infertility and pregnancy loss.
I WOULD LIKE TO BE A PART OF ANY EXISTING INFERTILITY/PREGNANCY LOSS SUPPORT GROUP in The Bahamas? I am also prepared to help with the formation of such a group.
Does anyone know if such a group(s) exist? Perhaps DNA Bahamas would know?
Thanks for any help.

Hi, I've struggled with infertility and pregnancy loss for some years now. It seems in our society that people think that infertility is all 'in your head' and 'you just need to relax' OR Bahamians assume that past sexual promiscuity has led to one's infertility.
Both viewpoints are erroneous.
Infertility is often the result of various medically recognized conditions which may be anatomical, hormonal, immunological and even genetic in nature. The male or the female partner or both male and female may be implicated. Infertility can be an emotionally trying experience, for a couple. I know for a FACT that I am not the only Bahamian woman (couple)who has been plagued with infertility and pregnancy loss.
I WOULD LIKE TO BE A PART OF ANY EXISTING INFERTILITY/PREGNANCY LOSS SUPPORT GROUP in The Bahamas? I am also prepared to help with the formation of such a group.
Does anyone know if such a group(s) exist? Perhaps DNA Bahamas would know?
Thanks for any help.

well the misconception is that women in your situation (infertile)have had too many abortions in the past and God is punishing you...
but ive never been pregnant so maybe Im in your situation? not that I really care to find out right now, this isnt a big deal to me as im not ready for children and im not married yet!and their expensive!
speak to your OBGYN about infertility options availabe to you in the Bahamas or call Doctors's hospital...my cousin needed a fertility procedure to help her conceive...what about adoption?

Thanks for the reply.

(Although I recognize that you DON'T feel the way that SOME persons due) Just for the record, I HAVE NEVER HAD AN ABORTION!

I have an immunological problem which is linked to autoimmune diseases such as systemic lupus.

I have an ob/gyn. I'm aware of adoption as an option. A beautiful option

However, I can tell you that there IS NOT an overwhelmingly large cadre of children available for adoption in The Bahamas. For the children who are available for adoption there is an EXTENSIVE and existing waiting list of prospective parents. Overseas adoptions can cost as much as $20,000 U.S. I've done my homework.

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couldn't find anything in the bahamas but here are some google links to infertility help groups:
http://tinyurl.com/rwf3d

Hi, I've struggled with infertility and pregnancy loss for some years now. It seems in our society that people think that infertility is all 'in your head' and 'you just need to relax' OR Bahamians assume that there is some past sexual promiscuity which has led to one's infertility.

Both viewpoints are erroneous.

Infertility is often the result of various medically recognized conditions which may be anatomical, hormonal, immunological and even genetic in nature. The male or the female partner or both male and female may be implicated. Infertility can be an emotionally trying experience, for a couple. I know for a FACT that I am not the only Bahamian woman (couple)who has been plagued with infertility and pregnancy loss.

I WOULD LIKE TO BE A PART OF ANY EXISTING INFERTILITY/PREGNANCY LOSS SUPPORT GROUP in The Bahamas? I am also prepared to help with the formation of such a group.

Does anyone know if such a group(s) exist? Perhaps DNA Bahamas would know?

Thanks for any help.

Sorry to hear of your struggles. I don’t know of any support groups here in Nassau but if there is one someone on this site should know. If there is none perhaps you should start one.

OR Bahamians assume that there is some past sexual promiscuity which has led to one's infertility.

Both viewpoints are erroneous.



I don’t think this way, nor do many Bahamians I know, so please don’t generalize an entire people as other people around the world have the same view.

EXCALIBUR..your comments are noted and I agree. I have edited my post accordingly.

Peace.

EXCALIBUR..your comments are noted and I agree. I have edited my post accordingly.
Peace.

moving along...

moving along...


Yes, who on the forum has the expertise and/or experience to help?

Yes, who on the forum has the expertise and/or experience to help?

I dont!:angel:


right now I feel so good that I cant let nothing or nobody bring me down...breezy again! (http://www.cduniverse.com/search/xx/music/pid/6738981/a/To+Tha+X-Treme.htm)

Wish you luck Kristen, and the best for the future!

Kirsten, There are no infertility support groups here in the Bahamas because its a subject that is shunned. Persons who are infertile are very quiet because they don't want to deal with the redicule.

CG had a good idea that maybe you need to start a group. Talk to Dr. Timothy Barrett or Dr. Wavell Thompson who are both Obgyns gone Psychiatrist and psychologist. I am sure they will be able to tell you how to go about starting a group.

Fertility in the Bahamas is a status thing. It proves a man's point and woman's point.

Most people do private adoptions. Check with the churches there are many children who are in need of loving homes but the parents are afraid of Social Service so they stay there and mistreat the children.

I am sure you will find one to take up that place in your heqart that feels so empty.

It maybe bnetter for you to adopt a pregnant teen ager and assist her with her child. Most of them get thrown out when they turn up pregnant.

Good luck in your quest.

Mel