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SheriBeri
09-16-03, - 11:08 PM
Hey, y'all! :bye: This is SheriBeri from Georgia.

I was wondering if there are any Americans on this thread who have relocated to Nassau. I've visited the island a couple of times; last time just this past August and I really like it.

American Black folks have gotten so crazy over here and it's refreshing how the Bahamian folks treat me. Or maybe its because I'm a nappy-headed Black American woman? :cutie:

I really wouldn't mind living in Nassau. I have such a feeling of peace everytime I visit. I stay in a beach hotel each time I visit (GOT to be near the beach), walk around in different areas during the day, and go out to the clubs. But I don't feel I've turned over that shiny penny yet.

It is more of a retirement place or can you really earn a decent living and own property there?

What was the hardest thing for you to get used to? I'll tell you right now; for me, its that accent! Please bear with me and SLOW DOWN, y'all! :shaky:

Also, I have a 5 year-old son so how are the schools there, if you know?

Delroy
09-16-03, - 11:21 PM
Hi SheriBeri,

Welcome to Bahamas Issues :)

I am sure that there are some American Bahamians here on this site that can help you out.

As far as school goes there are many to choose from. You can try searching the listings on Bahamas Golden Pages website here: http://www.bahamasgp.com

Welcome again.

SheriBeri
09-18-03, - 08:49 PM
C'mon, y'all. 33 looky-loos and no responses? Is it that bad living over there as an American or are y'all just "scurred" to post? You native Bahamians are free to post, too.

Anyway, there's one thing I noticed - there are hardly any sistas down there wearing natural hair. I'm not talking about braids; I'm talking about NAPPY hair and all its glory. You should have seen the approving looks and heard the comments I received from both men and women about my hair.

And I know Bahamians don't like gay folks. The guy I was hanging with called them "dangerous sissies." LOL! And best believe, they know y'all don't like them so they don't come to visit. Too bad; I wonder how much revenue has been lost because of this homo-hatred.

k.o.o.l.b.o.n.z.e
09-18-03, - 08:57 PM
to my regret i've seen alot of gay couples walking around downtown or out to the independance celebration out at arawak key besides nobody physically assaults gays or verbally insults them like in the States so that seems strange to me that it would be their reason for not coming here. but about the views i think it's just people reading what you had to say really i know i've peeped this thread a few times myself.

SheriBeri
09-20-03, - 10:20 PM
Yeeeeaaaa! I got someone to post! LOL!

Yeah, there's some ignorant men here who make themselves feel better by gaybashing but for the most part, the U.S. in general is pretty tolerant of homos. We have tons of gay clubs here. People come here from all over the world to attend Gay Pride. One state JUST got rid of that sodomy law that prohibited anal sex.

Every other week, I see some girl kissing another girl on TV or in the movies. Lately, there's been guys kissing guys. And we have shows like "Queer Eye for Straight Guy" and "Boy Meets Boy."

It seems to be the "in-thing" to be gay nowadays. And its cool for girls to be bi-sexual. I like to call it "lesbo-chic." Sorry, baby girl, but I do not want a pair of big, floppy boobs over top of me. That's not sexy . . .

Maybe the reason that gay folks think that way is because years ago, I remember about hearing a story about a gay cruise ship that was refused and turned away by either the Bahamas or the Carribbean. (If anybody knows what I'm talking about, please post what you know about it.) I think it was a governmental or city official decision and not a people thing, as in people picketing for them not to dock.

So if the government or city officials feel that way, it would be reasonable to think that the people living there feel that way, too. Ever since then, I think the Islands have been off limits to most gay folks.

dreeve
09-21-03, - 11:00 AM
How did this thread go from Americans living in the Bahamas to Gays?

I am an American living here in New Providence. I have only been here since Hurrican Michele visited us in November of 2001. I have since then written an e-book about the experiences in becoming legal and normal Bahamian living from an American point of view.

gonnabeme
11-18-03, - 01:21 PM
SheriBeri, I concur!!!!!

I live in Tennessee and have thought on several occaions about moving to Nassau. I wonder the same things you are asking about. I was there 7 times last year (somewhat of a costly year I might add), but I LOVE it over there as well. I share with everyone I talk to about Nassau that "I found myself in the Bahamas"! I have a church over there that I even work with when I'm in town. I love the friendly people for real...it really is a different feel from here. It always feels like they celebrate one another more than try to compete and tear one another up. I have often wondered if it is because blacks in our country (America) were brought over years ago and had to somewhat compete to make it. Our ancestors had to fight to keep families together, to keep food on the table and to get and keep ANY job. Now that we have gotten somewhere and things are easier...many have adopted the "step over you to get mine" mentality. In Nassau, even though I don't know their entire story, I believe they have seen majority black faces like for ever..even though the country was run by many whites
(I think...Bahamanians please don't hold it against me if I'm wrong on this). They knew the reality...we've gotta make it together if we will ever have a chance of our true independence! Anyway, perhaps I'm looking at their country through rose-colored glasses.
Hey, y'all! :bye: This is SheriBeri from Georgia.

I was wondering if there are any Americans on this thread who have relocated to Nassau. I've visited the island a couple of times; last time just this past August and I really like it.

American Black folks have gotten so crazy over here and it's refreshing how the Bahamian folks treat me. Or maybe its because I'm a nappy-headed Black American woman? :cutie:

I really wouldn't mind living in Nassau. I have such a feeling of peace everytime I visit. I stay in a beach hotel each time I visit (GOT to be near the beach), walk around in different areas during the day, and go out to the clubs. But I don't feel I've turned over that shiny penny yet.

It is more of a retirement place or can you really earn a decent living and own property there?

What was the hardest thing for you to get used to? I'll tell you right now; for me, its that accent! Please bear with me and SLOW DOWN, y'all! :shaky:

Also, I have a 5 year-old son so how are the schools there, if you know?

SheriBeri
11-23-03, - 11:21 PM
Hey, Gonnabeme!

Yeah, I'm wondering if I have those same glasses on, too.

7 times in 1 year? Man, am I ever JEALOUS! But I do agree wholeheartedly, the general attitude of the Baha folks is very different from the States. Its so relaxing that itS almost like my VERY soul relaxes. I also like the fact that there are so many Black folks around. Since I lived in Atlanta for almost 5 years, its really nice to see a lot of Black folks in other places outside the U.S.

When I go to a dance club when I'm in town, the men treat me so respectfully and don't try to grab on me and make lewd comments. They're very easygoing so I can let my guard down. The women were also very friendly and were easy to talk to.

TO ALL:
Anyhoo, I've been doing a little researching on various sites. And the best way to get down there is to already have a lot of money so you don't have to work. Otherwise, its best to start your own business. And of course, there's getting married to a Bahamian.

If you can't do any those things, you have to get a work permit which could run from $100's to $1,000's, depending on your field. Then the employers have to offer work to the local folks first before you can get a job. Shoot, I was about to send my resume to a couple of law firms there but I know I'd would go absolutely crazy if they called me and I was not able to get down there to interview.

My mom is absolutely DYIN' to get down there. Everytime she sees an Atlantis commercial or even hears the word "Bahamas" she starts sighing and talking about moving down there AS SOON as she wins the lottery!

Rory
11-25-03, - 02:07 AM
ive lived here for years and years and only been to atlantis twice, its not all fun in the sun, we have to work hard here also, as thingsare twice as expensive here than the states. Its so relaxing in nassau that nothing ever gets done, and when it does its too late or not done properly!

A for jobs, please send in your resume, we need more people from 1st world countries. Send it to more than one company, as far as I know legal firms do hire foerignors. more than other types of companies.


Hey, Gonnabeme!

Yeah, I'm wondering if I have those same glasses on, too.

7 times in 1 year? Man, am I ever JEALOUS! But I do agree wholeheartedly, the general attitude of the Baha folks is very different from the States. Its so relaxing that itS almost like my VERY soul relaxes. I also like the fact that there are so many Black folks around. Since I lived in Atlanta for almost 5 years, its really nice to see a lot of Black folks in other places outside the U.S.

When I go to a dance club when I'm in town, the men treat me so respectfully and don't try to grab on me and make lewd comments. They're very easygoing so I can let my guard down. The women were also very friendly and were easy to talk to.

TO ALL:
Anyhoo, I've been doing a little researching on various sites. And the best way to get down there is to already have a lot of money so you don't have to work. Otherwise, its best to start your own business. And of course, there's getting married to a Bahamian.

If you can't do any those things, you have to get a work permit which could run from $100's to $1,000's, depending on your field. Then the employers have to offer work to the local folks first before you can get a job. Shoot, I was about to send my resume to a couple of law firms there but I know I'd would go absolutely crazy if they called me and I was not able to get down there to interview.

My mom is absolutely DYIN' to get down there. Everytime she sees an Atlantis commercial or even hears the word "Bahamas" she starts sighing and talking about moving down there AS SOON as she wins the lottery!

Rory
11-25-03, - 02:16 AM
It always feels like they celebrate one another more than try to compete and tear one another up


unfortunately that is wrong. very much the opposite here actually. and it doesnt matter what color of skin you are.

gonnabeme
11-25-03, - 11:08 AM
unfortunately that is wrong. very much the opposite here actually. and it doesnt matter what color of skin you are.
Pretty sad situation. I think I'll just continue to visit and remember that nowhere is perfect. I can just get what I can get when I'm there and leave the rest to destiny. God has me in the states for a reason and I must admit that my growth has been great over the years...even when I have DRAMA. I hope you continue to grow over there and REPRESENT!!!

By the way, it will always be my first pick of travel for getaways, but I can honestly say that if my friends were to leave there I'd probably stop visiting. So maybe I love it so much because one of my best friends lives over there. She is Bahamian and can hook me up with the history of the culture; keep me up all night for Junkanoo; teach me what "Jungless" means and school me on the fact that saying "HELL" really is not a "curse" in the Bahamas. I love all of that. I think I'm just an international girl anyway. Anything about people in other countries gets me excited...whether Japan, Africa, St. Kitts or Brazil...I like to celebrate diversity.

SheriBeri
11-26-03, - 09:21 PM
Hey, Rory!

Yeah, tell me about it. I know its expensive to live there but y'all still livin' though. As for the crime, well, I already live in the blackest Black city in America so it wouldn't be something that I'm not used to.

I agree that I DO get a feeing of "Don't Worry; Be Happy" when I get down there.

{A for jobs, please send in your resume, we need more people from 1st world countries. Send it to more than one company, as far as I know legal firms do hire foerignors. more than other types of companies.}

Hey, good lookin' out! Maybe I'll send some just before my next trip. But how would I ever concentrate on work with all the beauty surrounding me? (keeping fingers and toes crossed to hit the lottery - LOL!)

SheriBeri
11-26-03, - 09:40 PM
{She is Bahamian and can hook me up with the history of the culture; keep me up all night for Junkanoo; teach me what "Jungless" means and school me on the fact that saying "HELL" really is not a "curse" in the Bahamas. I love all of that. I think I'm just an international girl anyway. Anything about people in other countries gets me excited...whether Japan, Africa, St. Kitts or Brazil...I like to celebrate diversity.}

Giiiiiirrrrlll, I know EXACTLY how you feel! I love going to different countries, experiencing different cultures and peoples. When I went to Rome years ago, I was struck by the romance of the city and the beauty of the buildings and structures. I went into this church where I rubbed the foot of a statute of St. Peter. It was so holy and beautiful, I was moved to tears. And I was told to spit in Rome so a part of me would always be in Rome. I know this sounds gross but I spit everywhere I go now! LOL!

And on Sunday mornings, they close down the streets near the Colleseum(sp?) and play Romeo and Juliet's theme on loudspeakers. On HARPS, too. OMG, how romantic is that? *swoons*

Next stop? RIO DE JANIERO! Now, where's that Portuguese language CD? LOL!

Rory
11-26-03, - 09:53 PM
{She is Bahamian and can hook me up with the history of the culture; keep me up all night for Junkanoo; teach me what "Jungless" means and school me on the fact that saying "HELL" really is not a "curse" in the Bahamas. I love all of that. I think I'm just an international girl anyway. Anything about people in other countries gets me excited...whether Japan, Africa, St. Kitts or Brazil...I like to celebrate diversity.}

Giiiiiirrrrlll, I know EXACTLY how you feel! I love going to different countries, experiencing different cultures and peoples. When I went to Rome years ago, I was struck by the romance of the city and the beauty of the buildings and structures. I went into this church where I rubbed the foot of a statute of St. Peter. It was so holy and beautiful, I was moved to tears. And I was told to spit in Rome so a part of me would always be in Rome. I know this sounds gross but I spit everywhere I go now! LOL!

And on Sunday mornings, they close down the streets near the Colleseum(sp?) and play Romeo and Juliet's theme on loudspeakers. On HARPS, too. OMG, how romantic is that? *swoons*

Next stop? RIO DE JANIERO! Now, where's that Portuguese language CD? LOL!

RIO and ROME, 2 places i always wanted to go, just havent made it there yet, one day hopefully! :-)

gonnabeme
12-09-03, - 11:41 AM
{She is Bahamian and can hook me up with the history of the culture; keep me up all night for Junkanoo; teach me what "Jungless" means and school me on the fact that saying "HELL" really is not a "curse" in the Bahamas. I love all of that. I think I'm just an international girl anyway. Anything about people in other countries gets me excited...whether Japan, Africa, St. Kitts or Brazil...I like to celebrate diversity.}

Giiiiiirrrrlll, I know EXACTLY how you feel! I love going to different countries, experiencing different cultures and peoples. When I went to Rome years ago, I was struck by the romance of the city and the beauty of the buildings and structures. I went into this church where I rubbed the foot of a statute of St. Peter. It was so holy and beautiful, I was moved to tears. And I was told to spit in Rome so a part of me would always be in Rome. I know this sounds gross but I spit everywhere I go now! LOL!

And on Sunday mornings, they close down the streets near the Colleseum(sp?) and play Romeo and Juliet's theme on loudspeakers. On HARPS, too. OMG, how romantic is that? *swoons*

Next stop? RIO DE JANIERO! Now, where's that Portuguese language CD? LOL! you should check out www.bahamacompanies.com (http://www.bahamacompanies.com) the music is ALL Bahamian...day and night! I'm actually singing their songs more than our music nowadays.