Pedophiles and Child Molester's.

Sadly, they can be our most trusted members of society, volunteer workers; boys scout leaders, policemen, teachers, social workers, pastors and the man or woman next door.

We can no longer afford to have the impression of a pervert, that he is a deranged street vagabond. We have to get serious, and understand them as our every day people, who are our friends, neighbours and family.

They flock to our most sacred places where we keep our kids...
Sporting clubs, church youth clubs, boy’s brigades, baby sitters, after school teachers...etc.

They are out there, and we must know that danger walks among us.

Numbers to call are the same as usual, call the police or call the department of social services, and report pedophiles.

err..so are robbers and rapists..where are we going with this? :uh:

err..so are robbers and rapists..where are we going with this? :uh:

ditto

err..so are robbers and rapists..where are we going with this? :uh:


Because, child molester's can hide and damage our kids for so long, and we will never know it.
Because of the perversion of a heinous crime against the innocence of a child.
Why would you have a problem with advocating awareness for child molester's?
What was your snide about that about?
:gi:

Be brave and be encouraged, even if it may be someone who we may trust, and even if it is a respected member of society, we have to make it known who the beast's are.

Be of courage.

Because, child molester's can hide and damage our kids for so long, and we will never know it.
Because of the perversion of a heinous crime against the innocence of a child.
Why would you have a problem with advocating awareness for child molester's?
What was your snide about that about?
:gi:

So make a national data base. Talkin about it on BI will bring awareness for a small group of ppl.

So make a national data base. Talkin about it on BI will bring awareness for a small group of ppl.


Just because a few people only post, does not mean that a whole heap just read, and on top of that, does not mean that people can not be affected by what was said here.

Public forums like this go FAR!

With that, every little bit helps!
:)

:uh: After reading the inital post I didn not expect to see this issue debated or questions arise as to what the point is/was. It looked straight forward to me. Or perhaps, having been abused myself, Im biased.

I dont see what is wrong with encouraging ppl, no matter how small the number of ppl, to encourage others to appriciate and understand that persons who abuse are no longer the strange man in the trench coat and sunglasses after dark but our friends and family.

I teach my kid that a stranger is 'anyone who mummy has not said is safe'. Well not in those exact words she is only two, its more like

(after a bath and getting dressed)

Q: What is this? (pointing at her private areas)
Q: Who is suppose to see your (insert appropriate word here)?
A: Only who mummy say could see it.
Q: Who suppose to touch your (insert appropriate word here)?
A: Only who mummy say could touch it and only when giving baby a bath or wiping after using the potty.

After being abused by a trusted close member of the family I am very wary of any and everyone.

When she is not with me, at day care or with relatives I always question her after...Who changed your diaper, Who spanked you and where? I ask these questions in front of whomever the caretaker is/was. In fact Ive been doing this since she was born so most ppl she comes into contact with are use to it. They think its funny. They dont understand why I do it and I dont explain. I want her to understand that mummy asking in front of them cause I aint scared to confront who ever so she should not be scared to tell.

Some may say I am overdoing but after what I have experienced and based on other ppls experiences, you can never be too careful.

:uh: After reading the inital post I didn not expect to see this issue debated or questions arise as to what the point is/was. It looked straight forward to me. Or perhaps, having been abused myself, Im biased.
I dont see what is wrong with encouraging ppl, no matter how small the number of ppl, to encourage others to appriciate and understand that persons who abuse are no longer the strange man in the trench coat and sunglasses after dark but our friends and family.
I teach my kid that a stranger is 'anyone who mummy has not said is safe'. Well not in those exact words she is only two, its more like
(after a bath and getting dressed)
Q: What is this? (pointing at her private areas)
Q: Who is suppose to see your (insert appropriate word here)?
A: Only who mummy say could see it.
Q: Who suppose to touch your (insert appropriate word here)?
A: Only who mummy say could touch it and only when giving baby a bath or wiping after using the potty.
After being abused by a trusted close member of the family I am very wary of any and everyone.
When she is not with me, at day care or with relatives I always question her after...Who changed your diaper, Who spanked you and where? I ask these questions in front of whomever the caretaker is/was. In fact Ive been doing this since she was born so most ppl she comes into contact with are use to it. They think its funny. They dont understand why I do it and I dont explain. I want her to understand that mummy asking in front of them cause I aint scared to confront who ever so she should not be scared to tell.
Some may say I am overdoing but after what I have experienced and based on other ppls experiences, you can never be too careful.

You are not over doing it and keep it up.

:uh: After reading the inital post I didn not expect to see this issue debated or questions arise as to what the point is/was. It looked straight forward to me. Or perhaps, having been abused myself, Im biased.
I dont see what is wrong with encouraging ppl, no matter how small the number of ppl, to encourage others to appriciate and understand that persons who abuse are no longer the strange man in the trench coat and sunglasses after dark but our friends and family.
I teach my kid that a stranger is 'anyone who mummy has not said is safe'. Well not in those exact words she is only two, its more like
(after a bath and getting dressed)
Q: What is this? (pointing at her private areas)
Q: Who is suppose to see your (insert appropriate word here)?
A: Only who mummy say could see it.
Q: Who suppose to touch your (insert appropriate word here)?
A: Only who mummy say could touch it and only when giving baby a bath or wiping after using the potty.
After being abused by a trusted close member of the family I am very wary of any and everyone.
When she is not with me, at day care or with relatives I always question her after...Who changed your diaper, Who spanked you and where? I ask these questions in front of whomever the caretaker is/was. In fact Ive been doing this since she was born so most ppl she comes into contact with are use to it. They think its funny. They dont understand why I do it and I dont explain. I want her to understand that mummy asking in front of them cause I aint scared to confront who ever so she should not be scared to tell.
Some may say I am overdoing but after what I have experienced and based on other ppls experiences, you can never be too careful.


Thank you for your input. And you are so right, even though I feel your pain and concern.
And your care takers are the ones who we are supposed to ask these questions. Perverts are not in trench coats any more even if they ever were.

When it comes to our kids, everyone is a target.
:tup:

You can never be too safe when it comes to your children. After the neighbor or the preacher or your boyfriend has had sex with your 10 year old, you'll wish you'ld have been more cautious. We have to talk to our kids and know where they are and who they are with. Don't stop protecting your baby!!! We only have one chance to raise them right.

Pedophiles and Child Molester's.
Sadly, they can be our most trusted members of society, volunteer workers; boys scout leaders, policemen, teachers, social workers, pastors and the man or woman next door.
We can no longer afford to have the impression of a pervert, that he is a deranged street vagabond. We have to get serious, and understand them as our every day people, who are our friends, neighbours and family.
They flock to our most sacred places where we keep our kids...
Sporting clubs, church youth clubs, boy’s brigades, baby sitters, after school teachers...etc.
They are out there, and we must know that danger walks among us.
Numbers to call are the same as usual, call the police or call the department of social services, and report pedophiles.

I agree with you entirely. The enemies of our young darlings have always been among us. That is a big part of the hurt in abused individuals. Continue the crusade. I am with you 100%.

I agree with you entirely. The enemies of our young darlings have always been among us. That is a big part of the hurt in abused individuals. Continue the crusade. I am with you 100%.


Crusade it is.
It makes me sick to think that, pedophiles can get away some times.
:hot:

Crusade it is.
It makes me sick to think that, pedophiles can get away some times.
:hot:


Sometimes boy...the stuff that goes on

I remember one time I returned home with a friend and we found her neighbour beating (with peice of wood no less) her five year old daughter.

It seems that she (the neighour) came home and found another neighbour on top of the kid. She ran the man out of the house and we walk by to find her punishing the child. WTF..how could you balme the child and let the man get away.:what:

We took the child into my friends home, called the police and the childs dad. Long story short...the kid lives with her dad now, who said the kid had been through enough and did not let the police question her so the guy go off, and last I heard her other daughters were taken away by social services.

Sometimes boy...the stuff that goes on
I remember one time I returned home with a friend and we found her neighbour beating (with peice of wood no less) her five year old daughter.
It seems that she (the neighour) came home and found another neighbour on top of the kid. She ran the man out of the house and we walk by to find her punishing the child. WTF..how could you balme the child and let the man get away.:what:
We took the child into my friends home, called the police and the childs dad. Long story short...the kid lives with her dad now, who said the kid had been through enough and did not let the police question her so the guy go off, and last I heard her other daughters were taken away by social services.


Sounds like Nassau Bahamas....
Sometimes I tell ya...I see people do real stupid.
It gets bad the characters we see, and how they rationalize issues...
:jawdroop: