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pharoah 09-02-06, - 08:54 AM Listen some men would harass a woman if she was in a comely nun's attire, i.e covered from head to toe. No excuses! Some men today simply lack respect for any woman (dressed sluttish or not). Men like these have been tuaght to respond to their most primal instincts, instead of resorting to their cognitive abilities of reason and decision making.
The first thing to starting a relationship is normally physical; how a woman dress; her stare;how she walks(sexy) and the timbre of her voice and her backside, i cant forget that, a black man's cryptonite. We are just wired that way.
As we get to know the person reasoning and cognitive skills are explored that eventually enhance what we notice first. My experience with women have shown that you can talk proper and even solve complex mathematical problems all you like, but if you dont tell that women some pleasing physical qualities she possess-temporarily or permanent- your chance of a relationship is limited. So men are merely following years of succesful techniques. Can you blame us?
de redhead 09-02-06, - 08:59 AM suck teeth!
I am tired of being brushed with that broad stick of generalization.
Men and women relationship has become guess work. Nothing sure now a days.
If ya say goodmorning without staring at a woman, she calls you gay...
If you seek at her and say she look good, you harassing her.
If you stare at her because her dress too short and you can actually see the hair from her la la....you invading her rights.
I say women need to create a guide book on how they would like men to treat them, subsequently men should create a guideline on how we view women...consequently we should find a common groud...Well that's until we realize that men and women are different and see things differently.
Besides, I think Bahamian men treat women in general better than the rest of the world. Yet they still complain. There is no making Bahamian women happy...dang
There is a lot of truth to what you say. Each man does what works for him. No matter how outta order you women consider the advances a man tries with you it must be considered. A man rarely tries a new "comeon" with a woman that he thinks will be a challenge (unless he thinks he has no shot and just says "what the hey"). So if a man approaches you in a manner that you consider to be offensive and totally in appropriate. That man either;
A) has used this approach before and it has worked.
B) has not used this approach before, but decided to test it out on you because he thinks he can get you anyway or doesn't actually want you.
C) has or hasn't used it but does not think he has a shot at you at all.
de redhead 09-02-06, - 09:02 AM The first thing to starting a relationship is normally physical; how a woman dress; her stare;how she walks(sexy) and the timbre of her voice and her backside, i cant forget that, a black man's cryptonite. We are just wired that way.
As we get to know the person reasoning and cognitive skills are explored that eventually enhance what we notice first. My experience with women have shown that you can talk proper and even solve complex mathematical problems all you like, but if you dont tell that women some pleasing physical qualities she possess-temporarily or permanent- your chance of a relationship is limited. So men are merely following years of succesful techniques. Can you blame us?
Actually if you don't possess your own pleasing physical characteristics dog eat your lunch.
Alien 09-02-06, - 09:12 AM Women are crazy!
:sarcastic
nationbuilder 09-02-06, - 10:49 AM suck teeth!
I am tired of being brushed with that broad stick of generalization.
Men and women relationship has become guess work. Nothing sure now a days.
If ya say goodmorning without staring at a woman, she calls you gay...
If you seek at her and say she look good, you harassing her.
If you stare at her because her dress too short and you can actually see the hair from her la la....you invading her rights.
I say women need to create a guide book on how they would like men to treat them, subsequently men should create a guideline on how we view women...consequently we should find a common groud...Well that's until we realize that men and women are different and see things differently.
Besides, I think Bahamian men treat women in general better than the rest of the world. Yet they still complain. There is no making Bahamian women happy...dang
I hear dat!
nationbuilder 09-02-06, - 10:51 AM I disagree, i think they know exacly the ''power they have''. I think when women put on skimpy and revealing outfits they want a certain kind of attention. And we weak men simply indulge them! :angel:
What I'm saying is that often times women use their power to play games they cannot win - hence using your power in a way that ultimately does not help you.
Alien 09-02-06, - 11:33 AM I was up on Sexual Harrasment charges at my former work.....
Real dumb bunnies I worked with at Domino's pizza. The worse year of my life, got fired a month before Christmas....really really bad bad time!
I learned from early, that when you work with women, and when you are their boss, you have to go out of your way to treat them cruel!
:mad:
Cuz, if you don't and start to play "laffy taffy" with them, they will burn you.
A woman scorned is just as dangerous as a woman wronged!
Just that, the reason for scorn does not always equal to reaction to being wronged.
p.s.
Some of the persons who were my persectutors at Domino's have been fired for various reasons. And, even better, alot of the persons who have been my persecutor's have stayed on as well.
LOL...
It was a win win situation for me!
:voodoo:
I don't dis the ones that stayed, just feel really really sorry for them, that the best they can do is flipping pizza's.
Vicky 09-02-06, - 01:26 PM suck teeth!
I am tired of being .
Men and women relationship has become guess work. Nothing sure now a days.
If ya say goodmorning without staring at a woman, she calls you gay...
If you seek at her and say she look good, you harassing her.
If you stare at her because her dress too short and you can actually see the hair from her la la....you invading her rights.
I say women need to create a guide book on how they would like men to treat them, subsequently men should create a guideline on how we view women...consequently we should find a common groud...Well that's until we realize that men and women are different and see things differently.
Besides, I think Bahamian men treat women in general better than the rest of the world. Yet they still complain. There is no making Bahamian women happy...dang
I did not mean to brush anyone with that broad stick of generalization.
You just have to know the difference in who you are.
If you one of the guys that very loudly seek at a woman and then say "hey I want to lick your big tits". How do you think she will feel?
Or if you approach a woman look her in the eyes and then say "Hi there I just had to come over and tell you that you look awesome". That is an opening she can respect even if she is married and has kids.
As far as fox calls (as I have known them to be) go you still don't have to be vulgar and women do like to know they look good.
nationbuilder 09-02-06, - 01:35 PM If you one of the guys that very loudly seek at a woman and then say "hey I want to lick your big tits". How do you think she will feel?
lol..she might feel offended or she might feel flattered...thats just the thing. Not every woman shows a man that she hates that kind of stuff ya know...some women show men that they love that kind of attention.
And between the porn that many young men poison their minds with at an early age and the other influences they come in contact with, its no wonder that some men believe that all women will respond to that kinda talk in a favourable way!
Vicky 09-02-06, - 02:14 PM lol..she might feel offended or she might feel flattered...thats just the thing. Not every woman shows a man that she hates that kind of stuff ya know...some women show men that they love that kind of attention. and if you know the woman and know she likes that kind of thing then g for your self
And between the porn that many young men poison their minds with at an early age and the other influences they come in contact with, its no wonder that some men believe that all women will respond to that kinda talk in a favourable way!
Then they need to be taught other wise
pharoah 09-02-06, - 02:22 PM lol..she might feel offended or she might feel flattered...thats just the thing. Not every woman shows a man that she hates that kind of stuff ya know...some women show men that they love that kind of attention.
And between the porn that many young men poison their minds with at an early age and the other influences they come in contact with, its no wonder that some men believe that all women will respond to that kinda talk in a favourable way!
So tru...but ease up of the porn. One could use that for perfecting your technique. Well, atleast for a novice. Just not too much. lol. But seriously, you are totally correct.
nationbuilder 09-02-06, - 02:45 PM So tru...but ease up of the porn. One could use that for perfecting your technique. Well, atleast for a novice. Just not too much. lol. But seriously, you are totally correct.
lol! Technique??? Bey you gotta be jokin! lol...thats where yall miss it bey..no two women are alike, so watchin dem "mr. one stroke" dudes on those skin flicks dont turn you into "mr. thug love"! :cutie:
But seriously doh, yall do yourselves a disservice maxing out on porn though..because what you see in porn does not equate with real life. In porn a woman is always ready, always into you, always responding to you like you all that, and always and everywhere your sex object...THAT AINT REALITY..
Cuz truth be told, many 'a yall negroes aint all that! lol :shhh:
i-omega 09-02-06, - 02:53 PM ..thats where yall miss it bey truth be told, many 'a yall negroes aint all that! lol :shhh:
timeout -:raw: :realmad: LOW BLOW:hammer: :dgi: :hammer: no hittin below the belt,
Teniel 09-02-06, - 03:28 PM lol! Technique??? Bey you gotta be jokin! lol...thats where yall miss it bey..no two women are alike, so watchin dem "mr. one stroke" dudes on those skin flicks dont turn you into "mr. thug love"! :cutie:
But seriously doh, yall do yourselves a disservice maxing out on porn though..because what you see in porn does not equate with real life. In porn a woman is always ready, always into you, always responding to you like you all that, and always and everywhere your sex object...THAT AINT REALITY..
Cuz truth be told, many 'a yall negroes aint all that! lol :shhh:
LMAO...Church dismissed :hammer: :bouncy:
Alien 09-02-06, - 03:36 PM lol! Technique??? Bey you gotta be jokin! lol...thats where yall miss it bey..no two women are alike, so watchin dem "mr. one stroke" dudes on those skin flicks dont turn you into "mr. thug love"! :cutie:
But seriously doh, yall do yourselves a disservice maxing out on porn though..because what you see in porn does not equate with real life. In porn a woman is always ready, always into you, always responding to you like you all that, and always and everywhere your sex object...THAT AINT REALITY..
Cuz truth be told, many 'a yall negroes aint all that! lol :shhh:
A woman is just a woman after all!
:shhh:
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