da men know why!:rolleyes:


I'm sure they do :D

What do you feel about the high rate of fornication ?
Is it really taken seriously ?
Doesn't it appear to you to be a normal thing in society, but let us not forget, this is a 'Christian Nation' so why is this not a low frequency activity? Don't you respect Jehovah Jirer ?
Do you fear others more than God ?



Well as I have heard before 'the flesh is weak'.

But I have always found it rather odd that humans were created such overtly sexual beings, and yet we are mandated (if you believe in the bible) to repress a very fundamental part of ourselves until we give ourselves into marriage. I mean we are brimming over with hormones from adolescence. Though I am fully aware that these hormones function in a biological capacity for development of the secondary sexual characteristics at adolescence.
Just has me thinkinng out loud.

I applaud anyone that keeps sex for the confines of marriage. However at the same time, you have alot of people that get married just so they can have sex within the moral confines of Christianity. Most of these being young people, 18, 19, 20, who are coaxed into a marriage that they are not emotionally mature enough for.

Well as I have heard before 'the flesh is weak'.
But I have always found it rather odd that humans were created such overtly sexual beings, and yet we are mandated (if you believe in the bible) to repress a very fundamental part of ourselves until we give ourselves into marriage. I mean we are brimming over with hormones from adolescence. Though I am fully aware that these hormones function in a biological capacity for development of the secondary sexual characteristics at adolescence.
Just has me thinkinng out loud.
I applaud anyone that keeps sex for the confines of marriage. However at the same time, you have alot of people that get married just so they can have sex within the moral confines of Christianity. Most of these being young people, 18, 19, 20, who are coaxed into a marriage that they are not emotionally mature enough for.

Waits!

Well as I have heard before 'the flesh is weak'.
But I have always found it rather odd that humans were created such overtly sexual beings, and yet we are mandated (if you believe in the bible) to repress a very fundamental part of ourselves until we give ourselves into marriage. I mean we are brimming over with hormones from adolescence. Though I am fully aware that these hormones function in a biological capacity for development of the secondary sexual characteristics at adolescence.
Just has me thinkinng out loud.
I applaud anyone that keeps sex for the confines of marriage. However at the same time, you have alot of people that get married just so they can have sex within the moral confines of Christianity. Most of these being young people, 18, 19, 20, who are coaxed into a marriage that they are not emotionally mature enough for.

man you said it. I have always believed the very same.

Well as I have heard before 'the flesh is weak'.
But I have always found it rather odd that humans were created such overtly sexual beings, and yet we are mandated (if you believe in the bible) to repress a very fundamental part of ourselves until we give ourselves into marriage. I mean we are brimming over with hormones from adolescence. Though I am fully aware that these hormones function in a biological capacity for development of the secondary sexual characteristics at adolescence.
Just has me thinkinng out loud.
I applaud anyone that keeps sex for the confines of marriage. However at the same time, you have alot of people that get married just so they can have sex within the moral confines of Christianity. Most of these being young people, 18, 19, 20, who are coaxed into a marriage that they are not emotionally mature enough for.


My thing is what's the rush??? What ya don't know won't hurt you but that's easy to say esp when you live in a society where "SEX SELLS", over exposure to sex in music, tv, movies and even these romance books. It's not impossible to wait if we notice kids in other cultures which have little or no exposure to sex have done so for years and they are sooo GREEN.

I don't think no one should be coax into marriage for sex, that's silly on their part, and the adults in their lives should guide them, marriage should be taken serious, wait a bit beside you have the rest of your married life for that :what:

My thing is what's the rush??? What ya don't know won't hurt you but that's easy to say esp when you live in a society where "SEX SELLS", over exposure to sex in music, tv, movies and even these romance books. It's not impossible to wait if we notice kids in other cultures which have little or no exposure to sex have done so for years and they are sooo GREEN.
I don't think no one should be coax into marriage for sex, that's silly on their part, and the adults in their lives should guide them, marriage should be taken serious, wait a bit beside you have the rest of your married life for that :what:


what children in what other cultures?

what children in what other cultures?


I am not an expert lemme get that straight but there is another side of the world that has a different culture from the US minus the MTV, BET, sex ed etc etc

Eg. a classmate from India once admit she didn't know what sex was and she was like 24 :what: Apparently, they don't teach sex ed in her village in India, she was due for marriage after she graduated so I am sure she knows what it is now ;)

im 35 and not married, so i guess im mr. fornication in da flesh .. :sailing:

im 35 and not married, so i guess im mr. fornication in da flesh .. :sailing:

gee somehow I thought you were much older..lol. When I first came to BI and read your posts I pegged you as an old cynical dude who was mad at the world..:p

gee somehow I thought you were much older..lol. When I first came to BI and read your posts I pegged you as an old cynical dude who was mad at the world..:p


You mean mad at Nassau :gi:

You mean mad at Nassau :gi:

note: not the bahamas ;)

note: not the bahamas ;)


note taken stored in cerebrum.

gee somehow I thought you were much older..lol. When I first came to BI and read your posts I pegged you as an old cynical dude who was mad at the world..:p


Age aint nuthin but a number!
:)