CaptainBob
04-30-07, - 09:58 AM
First, some background.
I grew up in Palm Beach County, in an area called Juno. My parents were SCUBA instructors, and certified at UNEXSO in 1969. My Mom was one of the first female intructors ever certified. Most on GBI know Dr. Clement as well as Dr. Bodner. They were on the team that certified my parents.
I have been diving since I was 7, and spent most of my summers as a kid in West End, Walkers, Lucaya and DBC areas. My parents ran SCUBA charters out of Palm Beach County. I spent a considerable amount of time on shore playing with the kids in the area, and was invited countless times by parents to eat at the homes of the kids I played with.
I cherished those days as a kid, and had more fun and better friendships with those kids than any other time I can think of.
I was not considered a tourist, was always well tanned, and had a healthy layer of skin on my feet, and could run around all day barefoot, and wearing nothing more than board shorts. I had a blast.
The parents called me ConchyJoe.
When I asked what that meant, they told me it was what they called a "White Bahamian". Ok, I am 7-10 years old and naive, I don't think of it in a bad or derogatory nature, I just think it is cool. All the kids call me that, and life goes on. Or does it?
So my Son turns 13, and I tell him for his Birthday we can go on a trip. He naturally chooses the Bahamas (smart kid he is!). So we go to GBI, and stay at the Westin, and go snorkeling, horse back riding, rent a scooter, eat Conch everything, and have a great time.
One morning, I am getting a soda at the Starbucks kiosk. The nice young lady behind the counter says "Good Morning". I say "Good Mornign to you, and how are you doing?" She giggles a little and tells me she is fine, a little sleeping, but waking up. We talk a little more, and I am on my way.
The next morning, same thing, but I ask her why she giggled yesterday. She proceeded to tell me that people rarely speak to her beyond "Good Morning". I tell her that I spent summers in West End, and that I think Bahamians are possibly the most friendly people on earth. We chat a little more, and she says I am a ConchyJoe. I was astonished, and it brought back those wonderful memories as a kid. When I asked her what made me a ConchyJoe, she said it was because I was different than the rest. I was tan, friendly, and seemed to understand how life in the laid back lane worked.
I read on the internet that the term ConchyJoe can mean some not so flattering things. That wasn't my experience.
So what does it mean to you?
Is there a potential that it means something different to people on GBI than it does on NPI? Or Abaco or Exuma? Are people making up things to make it sound derogatory? or does it really mean something derogatory?
I am not looking for an argument, just sincere comments and conversation.
I grew up in Palm Beach County, in an area called Juno. My parents were SCUBA instructors, and certified at UNEXSO in 1969. My Mom was one of the first female intructors ever certified. Most on GBI know Dr. Clement as well as Dr. Bodner. They were on the team that certified my parents.
I have been diving since I was 7, and spent most of my summers as a kid in West End, Walkers, Lucaya and DBC areas. My parents ran SCUBA charters out of Palm Beach County. I spent a considerable amount of time on shore playing with the kids in the area, and was invited countless times by parents to eat at the homes of the kids I played with.
I cherished those days as a kid, and had more fun and better friendships with those kids than any other time I can think of.
I was not considered a tourist, was always well tanned, and had a healthy layer of skin on my feet, and could run around all day barefoot, and wearing nothing more than board shorts. I had a blast.
The parents called me ConchyJoe.
When I asked what that meant, they told me it was what they called a "White Bahamian". Ok, I am 7-10 years old and naive, I don't think of it in a bad or derogatory nature, I just think it is cool. All the kids call me that, and life goes on. Or does it?
So my Son turns 13, and I tell him for his Birthday we can go on a trip. He naturally chooses the Bahamas (smart kid he is!). So we go to GBI, and stay at the Westin, and go snorkeling, horse back riding, rent a scooter, eat Conch everything, and have a great time.
One morning, I am getting a soda at the Starbucks kiosk. The nice young lady behind the counter says "Good Morning". I say "Good Mornign to you, and how are you doing?" She giggles a little and tells me she is fine, a little sleeping, but waking up. We talk a little more, and I am on my way.
The next morning, same thing, but I ask her why she giggled yesterday. She proceeded to tell me that people rarely speak to her beyond "Good Morning". I tell her that I spent summers in West End, and that I think Bahamians are possibly the most friendly people on earth. We chat a little more, and she says I am a ConchyJoe. I was astonished, and it brought back those wonderful memories as a kid. When I asked her what made me a ConchyJoe, she said it was because I was different than the rest. I was tan, friendly, and seemed to understand how life in the laid back lane worked.
I read on the internet that the term ConchyJoe can mean some not so flattering things. That wasn't my experience.
So what does it mean to you?
Is there a potential that it means something different to people on GBI than it does on NPI? Or Abaco or Exuma? Are people making up things to make it sound derogatory? or does it really mean something derogatory?
I am not looking for an argument, just sincere comments and conversation.