The sexual relationship makes it far from the same thing.


ok

lets say we have a home where mother and duaghter are raising two of the duaghters children. the kids see both females contributing to the household by working, paying bills, buying things, preparing them for school etc.

lets say we have a home with two lesbians raising two kids. the children see both females contributing to the household by working, paying bills, buying things, preparing them for school etc.

i dont see the diff. in fact i know many homes like the first scenario where the mother and duaghter sleep in the same bed.

How so? Do the children get involved with their parents sex lives????

Or may be you are right now that I think about it. A lesbian couple could never teach their son to stand a spray pee all over the toilet seat and not look twice to ckean after them selves. Just go into most mens bathrooms and you can see how well they have been taught.



that is hilarious vicky. i must say i dont think a persons sexual orientation would affect the way a person teaches a child to pee. LOL. this just goes back to being a clean person. being a bahamian male i know the reason we pee on the seat, i use to do it and it anoyed the hell out of me, also i know the way to solve that problem but i dont feel it is appropriate to discuss here.

also i know the way to solve that problem but i dont feel it is appropriate to discuss here.


pee outside in da bush?? actually on bay street it is common practice to pee in the middle or side of the street, in front of tourists if you can hold it that long ..
:)

pee outside in da bush?? actually on bay street it is common practice to pee in the middle or side of the street, in front of tourists if you can hold it that long ..
:)



say pee outside in da bush. thats hilarious but no thats not it, i can PM the solution to you if you want. Oh Rizzo you are right the sexual relationship makes a slight difference, they might see their gay parents being a little affectionate to each other. but it is documented that children that grew up in a stable gay home are no more likely to be gay or disfunctional than someone in a traditional family.

nah thats okay thanks, I think I can "handle" it ..

say pee outside in da bush. thats hilarious but no thats not it, i can PM the solution to you if you want. Oh Rizzo you are right the sexual relationship makes a slight difference, they might see their gay parents being a little affectionate to each other. but it is documented that children that grew up in a stable gay home are no more likely to be gay or disfunctional than someone in a traditional family.
Documented by whom? :bored: & that is a total lie,no way will they grow stable Children being what they are. :dancer:

ok

lets say we have a home where mother and duaghter are raising two of the duaghters children. the kids see both females contributing to the household by working, paying bills, buying things, preparing them for school etc.

lets say we have a home with two lesbians raising two kids. the children see both females contributing to the household by working, paying bills, buying things, preparing them for school etc.

i dont see the diff. in fact i know many homes like the first scenario where the mother and duaghter sleep in the same bed.

Uh don't forget homes where 2 women are just raising their kids together for financial advantage of sharing the bills

Documented by whom? :bored: & that is a total lie,no way will they grow stable Children being what they are. :dancer:

Maybe you should do some research before you touch your keyboard.
http://www.users.qwest.net/~apostolicchurch/FamilyProclomationOped.htm
After presentation of evidence from psychologists and sociologists, the courts have consistently concluded that a child growing up with two parents of any sex or sexual orientation has a tremendous advantage over a child growing up in a single-parent home.

My 2 cents One main thing these kids will not have is the hate for people that are different like other kids have.

who cares if sissy's get married!!!
:D

A few comments to respond to.

The sexual relationship does make a difference because the child doesn't simply see mom & mom paying the bills, or dad & dad, paying the bills. They see them showing affection to each other etc., etc. as you eventually realized Bahmaboy. Two females raising children in a platonic relationship and two females raising children in a sexual relationship/partnership, obviously may have different social/psychological effects on a child.

Now we all know that many children emulate their parents, and their parents' behaviour has a strong affect on them. Now it may be in a positive way or negative way. But don't say that if a child grows up in a home where they see something going on all the time, that it does not influence them more than a child who is not exposed to that behaviour.
For instance, if a child sees their father drinking all the time, they may grow up not wanting to drink because of how they saw their father behave. Just as some may start the habit because their father used to do it and they grew up thinking it was ok, or just the norm.
In the same way, a child may see homosexuality as something they dislike or something they like. Hence, the influence is there.

In addition to this, let's envision a scenario where talks of intercourse & reproduction come up. Suppose a child asks dad & dad about it and they explain how it happens. Then the child figures out "hey none of you have the female part, so how do you have intercourse or make babies?" The dad & dad have to explain that they do not have intercourse they have anal sex. Therefore reproduction is out the window, and in comes the discussion of " so where did I come from?"
Now let's say the same about mom & mom have the same discussion. They have to tell the child "well honey, mom and I use toys, and other tools to pleasure ourselves, and we cannot have children on our own." Imagine a child trying to make sense of all this. And if the parents are able to convince the child that it is normal, the child is succeptable to believing it is normal for them to be that way as well. It may also be difficult for them to understand their own sexuality as they grow, because their parents are making an impression on them.

Psychologically, it can be challenging for some children without question. And if someone cannot see that, they may need to do their own research on more impartial, credible material and websites.

Documented by whom? :bored: & that is a total lie,no way will they grow stable Children being what they are. :dancer:


well since vicky has reponded to your documented question i will leave it alone unless you want me to post some. i will use two personal examples: i met a guy and by getting to know him i found out he was raised by to lesbian mothers. i kept remeber thinking oh my god he seems so well adjusted and normal. this guy is a normal, put together hetro who doesnt want to live with a man. yall remeber my aunt i discussed in some other thread. she is a lesbian who had a son, although as far as i know she never lived with another lover but raised him as a single parent he grew up a well adjust bahamian male that is also hetro. honestly kids really dont care about their parents sex lives and do not try to emulate them. i mean think about it were any of you curious about what your parents did sexually or who they did it with.
rizzo acourding to your emmulation theory, how do you explain a gay person that grew up with both parents in a stable traditional family.

Documented by whom? :bored: & that is a total lie,no way will they grow stable Children being what they are. :dancer:


i dont think you should have used the terms TOTAL LIE and NO WAY. becuase there are kids around the world that have grown up in same sex homes that are hetrosexuals, THIS IS A FACT. just as there are kids around the world that grew up in single parent homes that turn out well adjusted, i remeber there was a time when people claimed that if a kid grows up in a single parent home they will turn out to be disfunctional individuals and thats why parents should try to stay together, we all know thats LIE. sexuality, fetishes, our likes and dislikes about the opposite sex etc is wired in our brains.

A few comments to respond to.

The sexual relationship does make a difference because the child doesn't simply see mom & mom paying the bills, or dad & dad, paying the bills. They see them showing affection to each other etc., etc. as you eventually realized Bahmaboy. Two females raising children in a platonic relationship and two females raising children in a sexual relationship/partnership, obviously may have different social/psychological effects on a child.

Now we all know that many children emulate their parents, and their parents' behaviour has a strong affect on them. Now it may be in a positive way or negative way. But don't say that if a child grows up in a home where they see something going on all the time, that it does not influence them more than a child who is not exposed to that behaviour.
For instance, if a child sees their father drinking all the time, they may grow up not wanting to drink because of how they saw their father behave. Just as some may start the habit because their father used to do it and they grew up thinking it was ok, or just the norm. So what you are saying is a child growing up seeing his dad drink will become a drunk or he will not become a drunk. HHHHHMMMmm How about a kid that becomes a drunk but his or her dad dose not drink. Where would you say the influance came from??
In the same way, a child may see homosexuality as something they dislike or something they like. Hence, the influence is there. Now here you have talked your self right into a hole. With the above theory where do gay kids come from? Lets start at the begining Adam and Eve were str8 where did the influance come from?? How many gay kids have come up in a str8 home??? I came up in a str8 home. You are so right on 1 point kids exposed to homosexuality at a young age will see it as ok. As in no problem with GLBT or any other different person. But it will not make them GLBT.

In addition to this, let's envision a scenario where talks of intercourse & reproduction come up. Suppose a child asks dad & dad about it and they explain how it happens. Then the child figures out "hey none of you have the female part, so how do you have intercourse or make babies?" The dad & dad have to explain that they do not have intercourse they have anal sex. Therefore reproduction is out the window, and in comes the discussion of " so where did I come from?"
Now let's say the same about mom & mom have the same discussion. They have to tell the child "well honey, mom and I use toys, and other tools to pleasure ourselves, and we cannot have children on our own." Imagine a child trying to make sense of all this. And if the parents are able to convince the child that it is normal, the child is succeptable to believing it is normal for them to be that way as well. It may also be difficult for them to understand their own sexuality as they grow, because their parents are making an impression on them.
That is right they will come up knowing GLBT is normal. but in your proof of the drunk it will not make them drunks will it.
Psychologically, it can be challenging for some children without question. And if someone cannot see that, they may need to do their own research on more impartial, credible material and websites.

Ok then you find some don't just type because you know how to .

Maybe you should do some research before you touch your keyboard.
http://www.users.qwest.net/~apostolicchurch/FamilyProclomationOped.htm
After presentation of evidence from psychologists and sociologists, the courts have consistently concluded that a child growing up with two parents of any sex or sexual orientation has a tremendous advantage over a child growing up in a single-parent home.

My 2 cents One main thing these kids will not have is the hate for people that are different like other kids have.
You can quote these silly web sites all you like,but as I have said before all your websites defending homosexually are faggots themselves so go figure.As to my point about the kids,were you ever a child,HMmmmmmmmm seems not.Because it seems that you forget how open,honest & cruel children can be eg. in school one of my best friends had a different surname from both his brother & sister(each carried a different name) you could not imagine the grief he got.And to this day I still see the affect when certain topics come up.So ya'll could carry on with all that lala bout kids growing up normal with homo's PRETENDING to be a normal family. :board2:

You can quote these silly web sites all you like,but as I have said before all your websites defending homosexually are faggots themselves so go figure.As to my point about the kids,were you ever a child,HMmmmmmmmm seems not.Because it seems that you forget how open,honest & cruel children can be eg. in school one of my best friends had a different surname from both his brother & sister(each carried a different name) you could not imagine the grief he got.And to this day I still see the affect when certain topics come up.So ya'll could carry on with all that lala bout kids growing up normal with homo's PRETENDING to be a normal family. :board2:


i will leave you to find your own truths, but hopefully someone else now see's things from a different point of view; which is the reason i participate in these forums. before i go i have to ask you, are you saying that EVERY child that grew up with homosexual parents is going to be disturbed or will lead a different life becuase of it? also would you rather a child have no parents versus being brought up by two homosexual ones?