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Rizzo 06-19-05, - 12:52 AM Vic, maybe you didn't understand my post fully. Bahmaboy, follow along too.
But to put it in a nutshell, (because breaking everything down to elementary would take too long), parents influence their children whether directly or indirectly, and the influence helps to form how the child will grow and live their lives. If a child is exposed to something, they will respond to it. They may emulate it, support it, or despise it.
The purpose of my post was to state that if a parent is a drunk/sober, homosexual/heterosexual, kind/mean person, it does not mean that their child will automatically grow up to be the same. However, their lives will INFLUENCE their children's lives.
Period.
Understand that now? :gi:
Vicky 06-19-05, - 09:44 AM You can quote these silly web sites all you like,but as I have said before all your websites defending homosexually are faggots themselves so go figure.As to my point about the kids,were you ever a child,HMmmmmmmmm seems not. Because it seems that you forget how open,honest & cruel children can be eg. in school one of my best friends had a different surname from both his brother & sister(each carried a different name) you could not imagine the grief he got.And to this day I still see the affect when certain topics come up.So ya'll could carry on with all that lala bout kids growing up normal with homo's PRETENDING to be a normal family. :board2:
Forgot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know frist hand, try being labled a sissy in school. I had to learn how to fight back. But then they would come in groups. Yes I know frist hand what it is to be different in school from kindergarden and up. Please explain how my parrents influanced this.
You are grasping at the wind and coming up with nothing. You have proven nothing nothing at all. Say what you like, you and ignorance have lost this round. ( please note I did not say "your ignorance" because you now know better. Even if to stand on your truth and you choose to ignore what you now know. It is not a problem for me if you want to believe the world is flat)
Vicky 06-19-05, - 11:20 AM Vic, maybe you didn't understand my post fully. Bahmaboy, follow along too.
But to put it in a nutshell, (because breaking everything down to elementary would take too long), parents influence their children whether directly or indirectly, and the influence helps to form how the child will grow and live their lives. If a child is exposed to something, they will respond to it. They may emulate it, support it, or despise it.
The purpose of my post was to state that if a parent is a drunk/sober, homosexual/heterosexual, kind/mean person, it does not mean that their child will automatically grow up to be the same. However, their lives will INFLUENCE their children's lives.
Period.
Understand that now? :gi:
I know you addressed this to Bahmaboy but 1 question
And your point is??????????????????????????????????
springman 06-19-05, - 04:27 PM Documented by whom? :bored: & that is a total lie,no way will they grow stable Children being what they are. :dancer:
Thank you Marichal, I would like to know as well because we are animals that learn by watching our surroundings.
Creatures of habit
springman 06-19-05, - 04:34 PM Maybe you should do some research before you touch your keyboard.
http://www.users.qwest.net/~apostolicchurch/FamilyProclomationOped.htm
After presentation of evidence from psychologists and sociologists, the courts have consistently concluded that a child growing up with two parents of any sex or sexual orientation has a tremendous advantage over a child growing up in a single-parent home.
My 2 cents One main thing these kids will not have is the hate for people that are different like other kids have.
I can guarantee you this research was most likely done by people trying to justify this folly. Choice not chance determines our destiny. You must realize God made no mistakes with us, he just gave us free will and what you do with yours is up to you. This is what makes us different from the other animals on earth. That is why he feeds the other animals and we humans will starve to death, because of free will.
RockWell 06-19-05, - 06:15 PM Forgot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know frist hand, try being labled a sissy in school. I had to learn how to fight back. But then they would come in groups. Yes I know frist hand what it is to be different in school from kindergarden and up. Please explain how my parrents influanced this.
You are grasping at the wind and coming up with nothing. You have proven nothing nothing at all. Say what you like, you and ignorance have lost this round. ( please note I did not say "your ignorance" because you now know better. Even if to stand on your truth and you choose to ignore what you now know. It is not a problem for me if you want to believe the world is flat)
Say lost HMmmmmmmmmm! Typical Feminine reaction,homeboi I am not in a battle with you.Notes to self: *Wonders if Vick went around his kids school in feminine clothes & if he convinced himself that they suffered no backlash because of this.Oh I know, he probably has a website to tell him they will be alright, even doe they are probably prentending to be happy around him.* :gi:
bahmaboy 06-20-05, - 12:13 AM Vic, maybe you didn't understand my post fully. Bahmaboy, follow along too.
But to put it in a nutshell, (because breaking everything down to elementary would take too long), parents influence their children whether directly or indirectly, and the influence helps to form how the child will grow and live their lives. If a child is exposed to something, they will respond to it. They may emulate it, support it, or despise it.
The purpose of my post was to state that if a parent is a drunk/sober, homosexual/heterosexual, kind/mean person, it does not mean that their child will automatically grow up to be the same. However, their lives will INFLUENCE their children's lives.
Period.
Understand that now? :gi:
i agree some what but i would also like to add it depends on the situation if the parent is gay the child will most likely support it or at least not have a problem or feel threatned by homosexuals or in some rare cases they may despise it or at least feel ashamed of it, but to go as far as to say emulate homosexuality? that is a streach. by now yall know i am from a female single parent home and i have only one sister through out my life i have been influenced by predominatly women. yall will think i am joking but even down to our dogs we never had a male dog, my teachers were mostly female etc. under this theory i just want to act like a woman or be transgender like vicky but i am not, why? becuase thats just not in me, i was not wired that way. but who knows, every case is different
bahmaboy 06-20-05, - 12:34 AM Thank you Marichal, I would like to know as well because we are animals that learn by watching our surroundings.
Creatures of habit
i am from a female single parent home and i have only one sister through out my life i have been influenced by predominatly women, talk about estrogen overload. yall will think i am joking but even down to our dogs we never had a male dog, my teachers were mostly female, i was the only boy in the neighbourhood etc. under this theory i just want to act like a woman or be transgender like vicky but i am not, why? becuase thats just not in me, i was not wired that way. to break it down, I GOT A BOYS BRAIN AND A BOYS BODY. i am amoung the lucky ones
Hmmm, I spent 3 years working with female waitresses, never turned me feminine, in fact I only got hornier for the female sex ... :friday:
bahmaboy 06-20-05, - 01:15 AM I can guarantee you this research was most likely done by people trying to justify this folly. Choice not chance determines our destiny. You must realize God made no mistakes with us, he just gave us free will and what you do with yours is up to you. This is what makes us different from the other animals on earth. That is why he feeds the other animals and we humans will starve to death, because of free will.
so are you saying you choose to be striaght, i know this point has been beaten to death but as far as i know no heterosexual with this theory on this board has answred the question with a simple yes or no . i said it before and i will say it again, but that was on a different thread, i can accept or ponder any argument as to the cuase of homosexuality (GBLT) or why these people exsist ie: genetics, chemical imbalance, a disorder, demon spirits, over bearing mothers and the list goes on. hell even emulation kind of has some relavance but the theory of choice to me is so illogical and to me has no relavance at all it just doesnt make sense.(at least to me it doesnt). i think another reason people are stuck on this theory of choice is they try to determine what cuase homosexuality, why not try to determine what cuases sexuality. all i know is i am a straight who is not afriad to admit that i did not choose to be striaght, for the life of me i dont know why most striaghts dodge that question.
as a christian i can understand why people especially christians say these people choose to live their lives this way. and then they quote the usual versus saying: God doesnt make mistakes, Homosexuality is an abomination. well what about people born blind, retarded, or missing a limb that is a mistake, depending on how you look at it. one things for sure it is definatly not natural or normal to be born that way. what about the versus that says God loves all of us and that God is love, what about the versus that says god knew you before you were born, so if god knew a person was going to be BLTG why didnt he block that persons conception, then we wouldnt have these types of people in the world. but you know i have come to the conclusion that all these verus and scriptures could mean anything and things could have been added in and substracted out by any one, i am not only talking about the bible but every other type of religious teachings foundations liturature. NONE OF US WAS THERE and we will never understand the bible no matter how much we think we do, to understand some things in the bible is like knowing what color jesus was for sure. there are four things about my religion i take to heart the books of GENISIS, PROVERBS, REVELATION and the Ten commandments.
even though i strongly believe everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and no one has the right to say whats right for someone else. i feel so bad for saying this but here it goes: to anyone that thinks homosexulity (BLTG) is a choice. they need to rethink that theory, to do so they need to put aside their emmotions and religion and ask themselves:
did they choose their sexuality?
research what cuases sexuality, not homosexuality
what makes you act the way you do? ie dress, talk, walk, the way you sound, your body build etc
Rizzo 06-20-05, - 10:13 AM Vic...that post was meant for you...but I wanted Bahmaboy to read it also...
But my point now, is that you cannot follow a simple post without getting lost.....
Anyway, Bahmaboy, emulating something that you see as the norm is not a far stretch. And as I said before growing up around females, and growing up around homosexual females has a different influence.
Just as not having a father in the home would have influenced you, though your level of influence may be different from others, you are still influenced. And it may cause you to say to yourself "well, I'm gonna make sure I'm there for my kids". Get it?
It's influence, it changes your thinking pattern, and forms you as a person.
That's it now....I've tried my best to get my point across.
RockWell 06-20-05, - 10:15 AM Vic...that post was meant for you...but I wanted Bahmaboy to read it also...
But my point now, is that you cannot follow a simple post without getting lost.....
Anyway, Bahmaboy, emulating something that you see as the norm is not a far stretch. And as I said before growing up around females, and growing up around homosexual females has a different influence.
Just as not having a father in the home would have influenced you, though your level of influence may be different from others, you are still influenced. And it may cause you to say to yourself "well, I'm gonna make sure I'm there for my kids". Get it?
It's influence, it changes your thinking pattern, and forms you as a person.
That's it now....I've tried my best to get my point across.
:cheers:
RockWell 06-20-05, - 10:23 AM BB do you watch espn,if so did you see the story on the gay female basketball coach?I would like your response on it if you did.
Vicky 06-20-05, - 11:33 AM I can guarantee you this research was most likely done by people trying to justify this folly.Which is it a guarantee or a most likely. Did you read the like did you see who posted it. A church. Choice not chance determines our destiny. The Creator already knows our destiny You must realize God made no mistakes with us,It is man who is mistaken. Thank you so much you are so right with this nothing can exist with out it being the Creators intention. NOT EVEN GLBT If we weren't meant to exist we would not be here. he just gave us free will and what you do with yours is up to you. Then please explain How is it that the Creator knows the future of each and everyone of us? Knowing what our next thought will be long before even the earths creation. Yet we can choose differently than the Creator knows of the future. After all the Creator is all knowing, so before the first crumb of the universe was created the Creator knew who is in Heaven and who is in hell.(if you believe is such a place). Or is it that the creator does not know???? This is what makes us different from the other animals on earth. That is why he feeds the other animals and we humans will starve to death, because of free will.
Now this last part is lame. Or is it I don't understand it please explain. Are you saying we create food from nothing????
Vicky 06-20-05, - 11:39 AM Thank you Marichal, I would like to know as well because we are animals that learn by watching our surroundings.
Creatures of habit
This is so true many learn to hate by watching others hate. Good thing Christ taught love so well.
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